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[Blind Gossip] These two rich and famous female celebrities are related by marriage.

There’s been some tension between the two, and suggestions to resolve it have only made things worse.

The newest suggestion? That one should take the lead in throwing a baby shower for the other!

That “suggestion” is coming from other members of the family.

It’s only caused more problems because the two are not really friends. If [the non-pregnant one] acquiesces, it will look phony and staged, and if she refuses, she looks petty and cold.

In other words, the non-pregnant one will come out looking either phony or mean no matter what she does.

That can’t be helping the situation!

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[Optional] You are the non-pregnant one. What do you do?

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  1. Once again, Megyn Markle and her SIL, the Duchess of Cambridge.
    I’d tell Meggie to give Harry an annulment and get lost.

    • How on earth can the Royal Family trust this woman after what she has done and continues to do to her own father. She doesn’t just disown him but publicly abuses him.
      Remember “ I have always cared for my father” publicly humiliating him, damming him with feint praise- just so cruel. We have seen her own gushing accolades to him BEFORE Harry. Kate and William should not ever trust her.
      I would want every conversation with her recorded- she will put it all out there.

  2. Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton

    Optional: I don’t throw it! If I’m not her friend why pretend? Meghan supposedly has a ton of friends in her close knit circle (the same ones running to the media every chance they get to make Meghan look like an angel) so why can’t they throw her a baby shower? It shouldn’t be up to Kate.

    • Catherine should not be put in this position. I don’t think she hates Meghan, I think she doesn’t ‘get’ her. There are very few neutral opinions about Meghan. The media has made a lot of money spreading negativity about her, then writing about all the things she is supposedly doing, verified by “royal insiders”, “palace sources” and “those who know”, aka : “I just made it up to get views”. Harry should book a restaurant for a party, have friends and family show, eat, schmooze and…

  5. Catherine and Meagan. Oh for heaven’s sake if they don’t get along don’t force it.
    They should be dealing with her family though, that’s gone on long enough.

  8. Kate Middleton and Meaghan Markle

    You don’t need to throw the shower Kate, get one of Meg’s friends to do it…oh wait, she doesn’t have any!!

    Kate won’t come off as cold or petty, I think that Meg’s gold plate is wearing off and the brass is starting to show.

  10. Duchesses of Cambridge and Sussex. Kate should offer to co-throw it with someone close to Meghan.

    • That would be really awkward. Meghan’s friends would probably be running to her and the press with every little misstep by Kate. Especially bc Meghan is popular with a lot of celebrities. It would not be a good look for Kate.

  13. Ugh that Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton.
    I don’t think she has much choice her family owns a party business
    How can she keep getting more annoying?

  15. Markle, Markle, Markle. It doesn’t matter what Kate does; the narrative that she can’t stand Meghan has been set, and now she’s the character “you love to hate” in this story.

    • I don’t think either of them are hated. I barely talk to my sister in law. She’s a nice enough person but we are just super different. It’s not that shocking that they weren’t instant bffs. Meghan is a grown woman who already had a circle of girlfriends and Kate seems close with her family.

  18. Kate and Megan. Kate shouldn’t be forced into doing anything she doesn’t want to do.

    Personally I much prefer Kate and everything about her. Megan has really made the Royal Family look shambolic. She and her awful dad are bringing the Royals down. Harry was a idiot to marry her.

    • Don’t forget that god awful sister, Samantha. I am sick of seeing her everywhere. She is a attention seeking as the rest of them.

    • She’s not doing anything wrong, in the situation with her family she basically can’t win as they’ll go running their mouths off to the press whatever she does.

  21. Kate
    Meghan

    Do it, she’s family regardless of how well you like her. That child is going to be a cousin to their kids and Harry is dear to them also. Though I understand Kate’s POV, why should it be her responsibility but may as well do it for the family to be happy. Like all families.

  24. Oh please, the Debarkle will want Amal, Serena and Oprah to throw the baby shower. There’s no way she wants a low key event thrown by Kate.

  25. Markle and Middleton. If you don’t want to throw the shower, don’t – being fake nice is worse than being “mean”. A baby shower should be thrown by a friend or close family member.

  27. Obviously Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton. Me? I’ve been known to throw showers for people I’m not close to in the past, honestly, because 1. I tend to get along with just about anyone, and 2. I think all babies are a cause for celebration!
    To be honest, I have a feeling that Kate isn’t as sweet and perfect as people think, nor is Meghan as snobby and demanding as Piers Morgan claims she is.

    • Also, I say that a good happy-medium would be to let her friend, Serena Williams, and her other “friend”, Amal Clooney throw it, and that way Kate can be photographed attending it with a huge present in hand. That way, Kate can still save face. Besides, it’s technically bad form for a family member ever to throw a shower for a bride or mom-to-be.

  30. Two Women: Meghan and Kate

    [Optional] You are the non-pregnant one. What do you do? Invite Kate and hopes she declines. Send an appropriate gift

  31. Kate and Megan lol

    I’m the kind of person who *likes* to throw parties. So even if I hate my SIL I would totally throw her a party…let me explain. Maybe its just my family but we have full blown Mexican dance parties after the first mushy parts of a baby shower. I would play host for an hour or two then start the dancing, no interaction afterwards necessary.

  32. Kate and Meghan.

    I think she should offer to do something separate from the baby shower. They come from such different worlds, they should just accept that they’re never going to be best friends and have a professional, collegial relationship instead.

  33. Middleton, Markle.

    If I’m the non-pregnant one, I’d make sure my schedule doesn’t allow time to host such an event. Although — if this is Kate Middleton, she could probably pull it off without looking phony.
    I’d be irked at whatever family member came up with the hair-brained idea.

    • Radishreindeer: It sounds like a Prince Charles special – hare brained & insensitive to both women’s feelings if they truly do not get along. If not him, I would think the Queen or Prince Phillip thought it up. Very out-of-touch & ill thought out suggestion/command.

      Optional: Have Kate be photographed bringing a large baby present, along with her 2 children, to MM’s abode, to wish her the best for the new baby. NO shower, NO disrespect, just a quiet, thoughtful moment for both women.

  35. The Duchesses od Cambridge and Sussex.

    Oh, for God’s sake, they’re not friends, but they’re not necessarily enemies. Shocker! They’re just like every other in laws on the planet. Just get someone thirsty like Amal Clooney to throw the shower for the DoS, and invite the DoC. The DoC can get lots of pics taken of her enjoying herself with the DoS, and be on her way.

  38. This has to be Kate and Meghan. Kate should only do it if She feels comfortable. Otherwise, it will come off as fake and awkward, and will accomplish nothing.

  39. I think this is Catherine and Meghan. If it was me I’d throw the coolest baby shower anyone has ever seen so people know I know how to throw a good party.

    Honestly, for all the charities they do I think they forget sometimes that how you live your own life is often the best example of how to treat people.

  42. M and M (Middleton and Markle). I think Katey has no choice but to throw the shower. Big deal though. She just has to get some staffer to make all of the arrangements and slap her name on it as the hostess. Not doing it looks worse.

  43. Kate and Meghan. Family members, even those related by marriage, throw showers all the time. I’d do it and be sure to invite Meghan’s real friends.

  46. Two Women: Kate Middleton & Meghan Markel

    You are the non-pregnant one. What do you do? Throw the baby shower

  52. Kate and Megan. I don’t blame Kate. She should not be forced to do this. But it is the Royal family and she probably doesn’t have much say so.

    I can’t stand the gold-digger Harry married. He could have done light years better.

  56. Waity Katie and Meghan Markle.

    She should throw the shower. Meghan will be a part of the family now no matter what (see Fergie for example) so she should show her good graces and throw a party. Sheesh.

  58. Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle

    Optional: I would probably throw the shower. Having thrown a few showers you can keep yourself busy enough so that you don’t really have to interact with the pregnant one (everything’s a surprise lol). But being that Kate has a staff to execute everything on command and won’t be running around like a chicken with its head cut off, it might be harder for her to avoid the soon to be mom.

  59. Kate Middleton
    Meghan Markle
    Is there a written law somewhere that says they have to be best friends just because they married into the British Royal Family ? They need to be respectful and courteous, kind and supportive of each other’s family, and especially of their husband’s relationship as brothers, but if all that’s good then that should be enough. Here’s a suggestion – Camilla and Kate should plan and host the shower together.

  60. Kate/Meghan. Kate should throw the shower along with a couple of Meghan’s other friends. It may come off as phony initially, but it could be the start of a true friendship if they both put their egos and the past aside. A big part of their problem is they don’t have a lot in common and nothing to talk about except stilted pleasantries. A new baby could bring them together but they both need to make an effort. Like it or not, they’re stuck with each other, so they may as well make the best of it

  62. Kate and Sparkles

    No baby shower for sure.
    Sneak in the information to paps about the gift I’m giving to baby

  66. Kate and Meghan
    Kate should throw her a shower. It could be the family shower. Her friends will throw her another one

  68. Kate and Meghan

    Optional: decline, but show up with a great big gift and a smile on your face. Honestly, why force something? Have one of Meghan’s good friends throw it.

  69. Two Women: Duchess Catherine and ‘Wanna Be’ Duchess Meghan Markle

    You are the non-pregnant one. What do you do? I think if they really want to do this, then maybe it should be a ‘co-host’ family baby shower..perhaps with Zara or Sophie’s wife. A sort of family type celebration. In this case its’ damned if you do, damed if you don’t’ type of situation.

    Personally, I think Catherine is above all this nonsense & I even dislike Meghan now even more that she’s trying to take her…

  72. Meghan and Kate.

    If I were Kate I would take the high road and throw her the shower. They are stuck with each other for a minute so they may as well make nice.

    I really wonder if Meghan is as awful as they make her out to be?

  73. Kate & Meghan.

    I wouldn’t throw her a party if I didn’t like her, but I’m petty like that. Let her friend’s throw her one, if there are any left!

  74. I don’t think Meghan should have a baby shower. Aren’t baby showers for people who need things? So their family and friends can give them stuff? She and Kate Middleton are also not friends, so this would look staged. Meghan needs to stay out of the spotlight as much as possible + treat everyone around her very nicely + do her work (yes, this is a job) + stop feeding the media by having “anonymous friends” talk to them. In time, things would settle down.

  77. Catherine and Meghan. I’d give my sister-in-law a beautiful shower if for no reason other to make peace and my husband and his brother happy.

  78. This is Kate and Meghan.

    I feel for Kate. That can’t be a fun situation to be in, nevermind having Meghan as your sister-in-law. I would honestly be surprised if people found her petty for not throwing Meghan a baby shower. They’re not friends, they barely know each other. It would make more sense for one of Meghan’s “very close friends” (do they exist???) to throw the baby shower. Kate should sit this one out and not worry about it. Meghan will make her life a train wreck on her own.

  82. Two Women: Kate Middelton and Meghan Markle.

    I’m not friends with my sister-in-law either, so I wouldn’t throw her a baby shower either. Kate has three kids, and better things to do with her time than try to appease her sister-in-law. Markle isn’t the center of the universe, and no one should be expected to repeatedly bend over backwards for her. She can have her five friends, who gushed to the media about how she makes tea and avocado toast (eye roll), give her a shower instead.

  86. Princesses Megan & Kate
    I think It would be a nice gesture but maybe be co-hostess with another family member!? Royal rules may differ however and this would be unacceptable.

  88. Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton. Why not offer to cohost with one of Meghan’s friends/Mom or offer to help plan it with one of Meghan’s friends hosting? No one believes they’re best of friends so I’m not sure why there’s so much pressure on Kate. She can still step up and offer to help since Meghan is her sister-in-law, but she shouldn’t be pressured into anything. In-laws can be cordial without being expected to be best friends. The drama that’s stirred up on the royals is ridiculous.

  90. Kate and Meghan

    [optional] attend the baby shower thrown by Meghan’s friends, and give some very nice gifts and first-time-parent advice

  91. Kate and MeAgain.

    Nope. Don’t do it, Kate! Maybe one of MeAgain’s besties can throw her a shower? Possibly Oprah or Amal? Yeah, we all know how close she is to those gals. *cough, cough*

  93. Kate Middleton & Meghan Markle

    Cut my losses and do what I want, if the outcome is the same either way. I guess phony is better than petty though

  97. Duchess of Cambridge and Duchess of Sussex

    Why should Catherine be forced to throw a baby shower anyway?

  98. Kate could always throw Meagain a shower with another, so called friend, of the Duchess… just co-host. Then the entire thing isnt on her but gives the public a view of an olive branch offering.
    Kate is far more classy than the Z-list belly snatcher

  99. Nothing. Nobody likes Meghan Markle, even my mum, who doesn’t read gossip thinks she is a narcisst, so staying away from her is the best thing Kate could do.

    She should ask Serena or Amal or Kardashians, they are equally tacky.