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New Man And Fresh Story

[Blind Gossip] This singer was not at all happy that she lost control of the media reports about her.

However, there is a new story on the way and she is definitely in control of it!

Of course she knew that she and that other celebrity had broken up a while ago.

She was so freaking annoyed that the breakup leaked! She wanted the chance to announce it her way in her own time and she couldn’t do that when the info leaked. That’s why she insisted on them both denying it and saying that they were still together and working on the relationship.

It was a total lie but it bought her some more time.

More time to do what? To get their finances settled?

To get back control of the story and to line up the next one.

The next one?

Yes, she gave her team instructions to find her a new man ASAP, like within the month. Preferably not a backup dancer or anyone like that. He has to be successful.

Is she really ready to start dating again?

No, but that’s not the point.

Her whole image is built around being hot and sexy and desirable. If she is so desirable, there ALWAYS has to be a man chasing her. Preferably multiple men, all competing for her attention. It doesn’t matter if it’s real or not or if they are just flirting or actually dating. It’s about perception and a fresh story.

So the purpose of the new man/men is to make her seem hot and sexy and desirable?

Yes, and to deflect from the breakup news. Once the new man/men is in the picture, the media will chase the fresh story and the interest in the breakup will fade. She will maintain her image and move on.

Since the whole timing of this breakup got messed up, it sounds like we can expect to start hearing rumors about a new man chasing her within the next few weeks!

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Singer:

[Optional] Smart or desperate move by her? What do you think the new man will be like?

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  2. pmadore1 says

    Most definitely JLo. All the usage of the word “control”. She was a back up dancer for Janet Jackson on Control. “Line up”, for ARod.
    Desperate on her part. How about we don’t teach our young children that they need a constant partner in their lives to be a whole person. Figure out who you are so you can be that person with your significant other.

  3. teatea123 says

    Jennifer Lopez

    This is dumb, immature move on her part. Sounds like something a high schooler would do.

    Watch her come out and announce that she’s “dating” Lenny Kravitz, now that they’re working on some movie together.

    • lila8245 says

      ^This! I already read a report saying exactly this. LOL. For such a beautiful woman, J-Lo seems to have huge self-esteem problems.

  6. DavyRogers says

    I’m betting J-Lo goes a shade or two darker than A-Rod just for the clout of it. It’s probably going to be someone in sports who needs (like A-Rod) to distract attention from his past and maybe some other shady doings. I can’t think of anyone in entertainment who would sign up for that deal.

  8. Dogcrazie says

    For some reason my mind automatically thought of Cameron Douglas (Michael Douglas’ son) But I am so happy it’s not him.

  9. mastik8 says

    JLo but this time it seems a bit too obvious what she did. My vote goes to the man she was shooting with, Josh Duhamel.

    • AHHAof3 says

      I’ve been predicting they’ll eventually be an-ahem-“item”. Plus it would be GREAT for ticket sales! Hahaha

    • EmilyLou says

      Very obvious. Her little games are getting old. She’s soon going to look as thirsty as Madonna.

  10. CamilleLeon says

    This is J-Lo after her break-up with A-Rod. This is a desperate move on her part. She should take a break from all relationships and just focus on herself and her children.

  11. Katmandu says

    This is Jennifer Lopez, of course. I can’t believe that 1) she thinks she is interesting and important or 2) that anyone thinks she is interesting and important. She will be 80 and still making announcements expecting the world to go nuts gossiping about her. Yawn.

  15. SleuthingForFun says

    Singer: JLo

    Op: Very desperate on her part, she needs to focus on her kids, I’m sure they are devastated as they all seemed close and did so much together for those 4 years. No idea what her new man will be like because she’s all over the place on her choices.

  16. darlacc says

    obviously J Lo & A Rod. She needs to show women who look up to her that women can be alone! This fake ness is getting very old. The next man she gets involved with should not be famous. Get a good man with good Christian values that with value her.

  17. ErinB61 says

    J-Lo, she has been so desperate for so long. She needs some self confidence. I think she will recycle. Maybe Ben again…

  19. varco950 says

    It must be sad to be Jennifer Lopez. The constant need to appear desirable seems to be coming from a basic lack of self esteem. I could see this playing out for the rest of her life. Kind of reminds me of Zsa Zsa Gabor and her multiple “relationships”.

  22. LVoeMe says

    Jennifer Lopez! No one bought that she was dating ARod! Why is she so desperate? She’s loaded and has beautiful kids! Call it a day and enjoy life!!

  23. Lefemmenikita69 says

    Jlo

    Reference to the back up dancer (wasn’t she married to one for her first marriage?)

    Her image of being sexy and desirable fits

    The new man would be someone younger than her and equally an attention seeker

  24. Storm says

    J-lo

    Totally desperate move on her part. I am sure the new man will be like all the old ones. She should take time to be by herself and spend more time with her children, not constantly in a relationship.

    • parkland45 says

      Heh heh. I’ll never forget the night she performed a song with her ex-husband at the Grammy awards. He started singing first, w/ his beautiful voice. Then JLo started in–it was such a shock hearing that nasally, tinny voice.

    • keenobserver says

      She could NEVER compare to Gina Gershon.

      Gina + Lenny – now that’s a hot couple. Neither Gina or Lenny need to try – they just are.

  32. kazzuri says

    Oh jlo, desperation is the least sexy thing ever. Isn’t she filming with Josh Duhamel , next showmance coming up.

  34. Shona says

    “Jenny been around the block” to “Jenny many miles on the clock”

    New man? Minted media or tech business type or stick to vain sporty type – dunno!

  35. no_one_no9 says

    Jennifer Lopez.

    Bit desperate and sad. She’s beautiful and successful, she should just take some time and enjoy life alone for a while, then things will happen naturally. No need to prove anything to anyone. I suspect her ego has taken a battering from A Rod’s indiscretion, but she should brush it off. His problem, not hers, and look at what he’s lost.

  37. kpark says

    JLo and ARod!
    She is super hot but constantly dating/ with men makes her look insecure and clingy. She doesn’t need a man she is still an insanely hot and successful woman.
    Just chill out Jennifer!

  40. packer says

    Its Jennifer Lopez and A- rod. She needs to find herself without a man and get some very deep therapy what is going on. This is not good for grown children , I do not know who she will get, Very sad, in many ways. Praying,

  41. Lby54229 says

    J.Lo

    Smart move. When she is ready to settle down for good, she will. Entertaining is her “man.”

  43. tvgirl13 says

    “Singer:” Jlo
    Optional: this is a bad look for her since she denied it. He’s probably already moved on and is seeing someone else. She’ll end up dating some PA on her movie.

  45. High Steppa says

    Desperate Thirsty Jennifer Lopez. The new man will be…let’s see…she’s already had a waiter, an rapper, a backup dancer, an actor, a singer, an athlete….how about a rich businessman? That’s a storyline she hasn’t tried out yet!

  51. gammyjill says

    Totally Jennifer Lopez.

    It would be better for her if she just lived with a man, without being “engaged”. Everyone knows that if/when she gets married, she’ll be divorced in three years.

  55. nycmadam says

    JLo

    Definitely pathetic. She needs someone famous as well as rich, as some random tech billionaire won’t do if there is no fame attached. Maybe a film producer as she keeps thinking of herself as a movie star.

  56. kimboray says

    JLo, do the Jennifer Aniston cool thing and hang out with fun friends. We’ll like you better for it.

  57. gailpow says

    Jennifer Lopez– maybe her current movie co-star, Josh Duhamel, can start chasing her around. So she looks desirable.

  64. Lynkan says

    I dunno … I’ll go with Jenny ‘from the block’ Lopez
    No clue what the new ‘accessory’ will be like ;()

  67. kavanah says

    J Lo

    A successful businessman. No more athletes or hollywood duds. But who? Only BG knows!😉

  68. omgimbackagain says

    JLo and ARod

    She’s ridiculous with her need to seem desirable. She IS desirable —- she’s gorgeous. But she is all about her image. She and Ben Affleck haven’t been the same since they broke up and although I don’t necessarily believe in “meant to be” or “one true love,” I am rooting for Jen and Ben. I think he still loves her.

  74. the skeptic says

    Jennifer Lopez.

    But no one cares, cuz we all knew the whole ARod thing was a fabrication.

  77. whistler says

    Jennifer Lopez

    Sad that she feels her image is dependent upon a man, when she is successful in her own right.

  79. parkland45 says

    What the heck is wrong with Jennifer Lopez? She’s financially successful, has adorable children, looks great, etc. So this relationship didn’t work out. A lot of us have had several relationships not work out but we handled it. Plus… didn’t friends and/or business associates warn her re: ARod?

  88. leighleigh says

    She might as well go ahead and get back with Ben Affleck at this point. Full circle.

  92. taracu says

    This sounds exactly like needy JLo but I thought her and ARod got back together.
    Guess that didn’t last long…

  94. zappy2050 says

    “Singer” (let’s put that in quotes) – Jlo

    Who it will be? – they are all fake relationships so it doesn’t matter who it is. Probably a lesser known but hot actor.

    My husband (who is so reserved and quiet) asked me why Jlo cannot just takes the time to develop a genuine relationship. Good question.

  96. traherne says

    JLo.

    Desperate. She’s beautiful, but that’s pretty much all she has going for her. Terrible singer, mediocre actress at best.

  97. Midsomerfan says

    Jennifer Lopez
    Probably someone flashy and younger.
    I feel sorry for women whose whole sense of themselves is bound up in being attractive to the opposite sex.
    I feel like people will see through this anyway.

  100. llabine1 says

    JLo and A.Rod……they finally admitted today that it’s over…they say that they are better off as being just friends…

  101. SilentWhisper666 says

    This is the JLo and A-Rod breakup

    And it looks desperate by now like can she not be on her own she needs to single for a certain amount of time

  102. VickyLou says

    Singer: Good Lord, J-Lo.

    [Optional] Desperate. Good looking, successful, younger, businessman.
    So ridiculously transparent, needy & thirsty.

  104. Jodone says

    it sounds like JLo. Girl you are a woman now, so starting acting like it. You should lay low and find out someone who is age and others appropriate. You don’t want to be a desperate old lady like Madonna now do you.

  106. nativebabe says

    Definitely J. Lo and super desperate. Be a single lady and show us how it’s all done. Hot girl summer!!!

  108. MrsCleaver says

    J Lo. She comes off as SO desperate. Can’t be five minutes without some new guy. I feel bad for her kids, new “dads” all the time. She’ll find some sucessful sucker who wants to be seen with her. Good luck to them both.

  115. KatarinaJ says

    J Lo & A-Rod splitting & she has to make herself move on bc A-Rod is such a scummy lying cheater. I don’t get JLo. You can be UBER sexy & not be tied down to a man? I don’t get it! That is not hot, girl. Hot is playing the field & maybe being seen with SEVERAL younger guys. Serial monogamy too quickly may change the narrative but makes you look sad & desperate. Any strong woman can be ON HER OWN!

  116. MizGrandma says

    Jennifer Lopez

    Likely smart + desperate. Hopefully the next man will be more malleable & believable. Oh, & he should have his own $$$.

  117. Steffy44 says

    J Lo. She’s a desperate aging woman. Her and Madonna need to learn how to grow old gracefully. Stop being so desperate you can’t exist without a man attached.

  119. JBDinCA says

    Jennifer Lopez aka JLo, Jenny from the Block

    Desperate!
    Probably an actor from Bridgerton or some other hot new show that will get lots of hype and promotion.

  120. elliedee says

    Singer: Jennifer Lopez

    [Optional] Smart or desperate move by her? What do you think the new man will be like?
    She has really got issues with all her insecurities so I’d suggest they find her a psychiatrist boyfriend – she can kill 2 birds with one stone that way.

  122. grumpy says

    Singer: JLO

    [Optional] Smart or desperate move by her? Sounds desperate I can’t believe in day celebs still act like this , all these lies

  128. GooglyMoogly says

    JLo

    I find it hilarious that she moves from man to man all the time. It makes her seem
    1) desperate
    2) unable to keep a man by her side
    3) insecure to be alone and selective about who she should date.

    Good luck with the next guy. And the next. And the next. And the next. Miss Desperate.

  130. montebell says

    JLopez, very, very desperate. I can’t imagine anyone being too interested in the breakup. She won’t stay single for long, she never does. Maybe she should try an older guy next.

  132. Alliesonme says

    Jennifer Lopez & Alex Rodriguez

    That’s the whole problem, her need for control. This showmance was a PR move from the get go. The ones I really feel sorry for are the 4 children, who really formed a beautiful bond. The marriage was never going to happen. Smart move by both parties in ending the charade. Her next man- someone older like Lenny Kravitz or whoever the next co-star will be in an upcoming film/project.

  133. FiyahHotFlashy says

    Singer: Jennifer Lopez aka JLo

    [Optional] Smart or desperate move by her? What do you think the new man will be like? DESPERATE!!! She needs to be single for a very long time. The next man will be very young, model looks and willing to play her game.

  138. surfsunsand05 says

    Singer: J Lo

    [Optional] Smart or desperate move by her? What do you think the new man will be like? Desperate. Why is it that she’s “sexy and desirable” by moving from man to man, but Taylor Swift is immature because she goes from relationship to relationship? Ugh. I’m sure the next one will be rich and successful – maybe an actor again this time!

  144. Maureen0810 says

    JLo and ARod

    Is anyone interested in the break-up? Desperate move. Focus on your kids.

  145. beachchick218 says

    JL. What a desperate and shallow person she is. Does she have no self-esteem? Her self-worth comes from a man?

    Her life must be sad and empty. She’s too old to be playing these games. Why go through life in fake relationships when she could have a real one?

    It sucks to be her.

  148. mrw222 says

    JLo. Damn, how embarrassing to be so obvious. Does she really think that people fall for these tricks anymore?

  150. Takenbk says

    JLo – stupid move regarding a new man, there are children involved! Seems like the right move to ditch ARod though with all the cheating rumours.

  152. badgerette85 says

    JLo
    Why do some of these celebs feel the need to have a man on their arm to feel empowered and successful??? Such a sham and shame!

  153. 5klp471 says

    JLo and ARod split. Desperate move by JLo. There needs to be a contract situation by her to keep the image up. Three or four men, all younger. JLo can play the cougar now.

    Is she damaged goods?

  157. SueSue says

    Jennifer Lopez. I guess from a marketing standpoint this is smart, but from a personal, self-worth angle, this feels desperate and more than a little sad.

  159. funster says

    JLo.

    Desperate. I feel sorry for her. She’s not very talented and this image she’s trying to perpetuate def has a rapidly approaching expiration date. Just look at Madonna. Same.

    The new man will probably be younger…

  162. CoOp3rb0om says

    Singer: JLo
    who split from Alex Rodriguez (or how their PR people put it “realized they are better as friends”).

    Smart or desperate move? IDK about desperate but certainly not necessary. She should just embrace being fab on her own.

  163. whiskers says

    Quick, everyone, we need to find a new guy for Jennifer Lopez.

    It will need to be someone successful, famous, with dark hair and who’s name can be combined with hers to create a catchy combination. No back up dancers please.

    Please hurry.

  164. blessed1 says

    Jlo is always desperate.

    No idea what new man will be like but my condolences to him. With Arod I felt like she finally got the man she deserved

  166. KittyKat says

    JLo- ugh. Hate to say it but desperate. She needs to just be single and thrive for a while. What’s wrong with just being empowered without needing a man? She will probably go for someone younger this time.

  167. redstilettos says

    JLo, Just be single for awhile. Find out why you pick the wrong men though Cris Judd seemed like a nice guy.

  168. stupidtrista says

    JLo. She pathetic. I wouldn’t be surprised if the “new man” is Ben Affleck. Idk why but I always thought they’d get back together. Two star crossed morons, thirsty for publicity.

  174. OhSoLittleMouse says

    Jenny it’s pathetic to bounce from man to man, especially when none of them love you. If she truly loved ARod she wouldn’t be able to start up with someone new so quickly. It’s desperate and sad.

  177. Vampira says

    LOL…J-Lo (and her ego) always has to give the appearance of HER breaking up with THEM. When Affleck walked away from their wedding plans, she begged hm to come back so she could formally break up with HIM a short time later.

  178. ILUVCA4evr says

    J. Lo.

    Desperate.

    Isn’t she getting too old for this behavior? She’s starting to be like Madonna. And I don’t mean that in a good way……………