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Jerkiness And Your First Priority

[Blind Gossip] This actress has made a lot of missteps in the past few months. People criticized her. Instead of keeping calm and carrying on, she whined in public and hinted that she wasn’t getting the kind of sympathy or support she needed from her new family.

Well, allow us to tell you about how far her new family is actually willing to go when one of its own is in trouble!

Our TV actress’ husband got himself into some hot water a few years back. You probably saw some photos of one of his wild nights involving overspending, drunken debauchery, a pool table, and clothing-free hijinx.

However, there was something happening behind the scenes that we are going to tell you about for the first time!

There were young girls there and there were drugs all over the room. Bongs, coke, pills. That’s what they didn’t want anyone to see or hear about.

The family went into hyper drive to recover every photo they could and shut up every witness. They deployed a security staff of over a dozen people. Every person in that room was identified and received a visit the next day from security. They went to each person’s house, apartment, dorm room, or hotel room. All the photos were seized. Everyone had to sign an NDA.

That is why you never saw the photos of the drugs or heard any witness statements after the initial photos were leaked.

Our actress’ husband was told to keep quiet about the incident, which he did. He did not attack the media for reporting on the incident. Much later on, he expressed regret and said how sorry he was that he let his family down.

THAT, people, is how the game is played.

Act like a jerk?

Wild spending, young girls, drugs, alcohol?

No problem!

Your family will move heaven and earth to cover your butt. They will protect you… as long as you understand that your family is your first priority.

But if you act like your family is the problem – or hint that your family isn’t supporting you – you are on your own.

Guess who is on her own now?

Similar: Her Own Game

Couple:

[Optional] Who is the problem here? Husband? Wife? Family? Always keep your comments civil. Always use people’s real names.

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  1. smoolieloo says

    The Royal Family and the Queen hate the Duchess of Sussex so much that they are kicking her out of the family and banishing Prince Harry and Duchess Meaghan to Africa or Canada or America. Pay no attention to the fact that there was an announcement by the palace that the Queen and the Duchess of Sussex will be heavily featured—along with other members of the Royal Family—in a Summer 2020 exhibition at Buckingham Palace. How sad that Meaghan will probably be banished to some foreign country.

  2. SweetnSour says

    Couple: Meghan and Harry Markle of Sussex
    She’s the problem. She’s so bent on being the change she wants to see in her self-centered world that nothing else matters: not her husband, not the family he came from, not hundreds of years of royal tradition or its place in England. Not sorry that she’s her own with her tone-deaf, expensive (and likely not as effective as the royal version) Hollywood PR team – she’s worked to make that happen.

  3. Scrappys says

    Meghan swooped in on Harry and took advantage of his pain. She couldn’t wait to marry and seal the deal with a baby. Nothing about this social climber is genuine. The fact she is gunning for a dead woman’s title (Diana’s) shows what kind of a sad and shallow person she is. It’s never about the charities she visits. The charities just give this self-righteous actress exposure and another stage to boohoo on. Her victim complex knows no bounds. Harry married a nutter. He’s going to pay for it.

  4. twinklelights15 says

    Can someone explain to me how they are keeping the fact that she made a 10-minute hardcore porn video, complete with a money shot, a secret?! I thought this would be huge news now that the video can be found through a Google search. I know BG questioned whether it’s really Meghan, but it VERY clearly is. Same mole above her lip. Same teeth, smile, eyes. Everything. I think the only difference is that she doesn’ have Botox in it and her expressions are ridic.

  5. ChattyCat says

    Why is everyone coming down so hard on Meghan???? The royal family are living in the dark ages – clinging to outdated traditions that have become irrelavant in the current day. Being American Meghan was blind to the unfair expectations and standards exposed by Diana – and which made her an outcast. Any woman with a functioning brain and any degree of self-respect would struggle to be ‘accepted’ by the royal fold. The monarchy should be abolished.

    • hazura jane says

      If the Duchess finds the ‘outdated traditions that have become irrelevant’ so distasteful, she should be a stand-up person of integrity and live a simple, plain life with her husband away from the RF. Instead, she gobbles all the sweeties at the banquet, then gripes about her bellyache.

  6. Ramblingirl says

    It’s sad that QEII has worked her entire life to maintain the dignity of the crown and preserve its traditions and here in her 90s she’s watching it teeter. All of this talk of “modernizing” the royal family means exactly what? Doing away with what a nonagenarian has given her life to keep because it matters to whom?
    For me, the issue isn’t about what one woman, new to the party, has to say. What matters to me is what Queen Elizabeth has to say and tradition is huge for her.

  7. Baileygirl says

    Meghan and Henry. She can’t be too bright to be playing games with the Royal Family. And Henry can’t be too bright if he has such a short memory that he has forgotten how they saved his butt in Las Vegas.
    I think Henry knows the marriage is a train wreck but either due to loyalty to her or the inability to admit William et al were right in asking him to slow down and not rush into marriage, he is staying the course. A poor strategy that will result in him being the biggest loser in the end.

  8. montrealaise says

    Meghan and Hapless Harry, yet again.
    I just saw an article about her visit to a charity which helps women who are victims of violence – and she’s wearing jeans. The unwritten dress code for the BRF is that they never wear jeans in public except for very casual events, and she was criticized for wearing jeans to Wimbledon. Yet here she is again, wearing jeans to an informal but not casual event. Why does she insist on flouting rules and traditions, again and again?

    • jln407 says

      The Duchess of Cambridge (Kate) wears jeans to official events all the time. See Harpers Bazaar June 2019. What is your point? Seems like a double standard.

    • montrealaise says

      The only events I’ve seen Kate wear jeans to have been very casual ones – she’s never worn them when she’s visiting a charity. I don’t understand your reference to the Harper’s Bazaar issue of June 2019: I googled it and the magazine does indeed have a picture of Kate – wearing a coatdress, hat and heels. My point is that Meghan broke royal protocol before, was called out on it, and has done it again.

  10. Starduster says

    Harry had a bullseye on him when * marked him and took him hostage. She is evil and he’s going down in flames with her. Tragic for his family who obviously adore(d) him.

    Love to see if she gets any more work in Hollywood after this caper.

  14. Psychic_Spork says

    Oh Meghan Markle.

    She just can’t seem to get in the good graces of the royals. Whatever she thinks of them, Meghan not adhering to their traditions only makes it worse.

    • Psychic_Spork says

      I forgot Harry in the couple. He has never wanted to step in line with the royals, I assume knowing he won’t ever have the throne. I’m guessing that is a big part of the issues happening.

  20. Jessecat says

    Prince Harry, photo of him dressed up as a Nazi for fancy dress, photo of him playing pool naked..etc..
    Meghan Markle is the actress

  27. GooglyMoogly says

    Miss Meghan and her wild husband Harry

    I think Meghan is the problem 100%

    I find the whole thing hilarious. I like when the royals’ naughty activities are exposed to the world.

  28. kazzuri says

    Also wanted to say that any criticism is called racist. As if she is beyond comment. Truly an out of touch Marie Antoinette of our timesm

    • Alexis_Rose says

      It’s the “racist” b.s. that irritates ne the most. Criticism of her does not equal racism. That sort of gaslighting is another form of manipulation.

  29. kazzuri says

    Interesting, she’s acting like a thirsty reality star who doesn’t know the difference between celebrity and royal family. The PR game couldn’t be worse. I think a lot of us hrits were genuinely supportive at 1st. But the complaining is really getting out of hand. I don’t know if people outside uk realise how tough we are going it. Austerity cuts afterthe GFC. Mess over Brexit. To hear such ptiveleged people complaining is sickening. And doing it in Africa is the most tone deaf action…

  30. Jayzzzzzz says

    Meghan Markle & Prince Harry.

    Who is the problem here? I think the problem is twofold-both MM & the Family. MM thought she could “modernize” the Fam, which is woefully behind the times. But the Fam is a juggernaut & she was crushed within a year. If she’d been quieter & worked from the inside, made friends with Kate, etc. maybe she had a shot at modernizing the Royal Family. Especially since her husband & the future king USED TO BE very close. MM could’ve been very influential.

  33. ana2805 says

    couple : Duke of sussex and meghan markle

    Who is the problem here? : Duke of sussex and meghan markle

  34. emmmah says

    Meghan and Harry.
    I think Meghan is the biggest problem here. Harry had no public issues being part of ”the firm” until she showed up.
    It’s gonna be interesting to see how all of this plays out.

  35. aaaKa.lie says

    Couple: Prince Harry & Meghan (Me-gain) Markle

    Who is the problem here? – Definitely the wife! I liked her so much in the beginning, but now I can’t stand her bad acting and victim playing. She wants to be the next Diana so badly. It’s a shame what happened to Harry. At first, I wondered why the RF doesn’t put an end to it but then I realized they must be happy about anything that distracts from Prince Andrew. She could be the downfall of the British monarchy.

    • OhYeah says

      I think she would like to be powerful enough to cause the downfall of the British monarchy, but she’s absolutely not. They’ve survived scandals before; the Duchess of Sux might muss their hair but she won’t blow them over.

  36. aurorabelle says

    Couple: Harry and Meghan
    [Optional] The family has the problem of still being way too “traditional” (antiquated?) in values, but the Meghan should have known what she was marrying into. All she had to do was study her sister-in-law to get a good idea of how to work within The Firm. And being a disruptor like Lady Di can be a positive thing, but she’s doing all these things in such a short span of time that it just looks like a trainwreck.

  37. purplefluffybunny says

    Harry and Meghan again

    They both are – there’s so much help available from experienced people in the Royal Family and they seem to think they’re above it.

    V sad.

  38. aaaHils says

    The Duke and Duchess of Excess (again). Harry got drunk and had a naked party years ago. His security allowed girls in with their cameras and a huge ‘clean up’ operation had to be very quickly. Now they are bleating about the media and moaning about his family not being supportive enough of ‘their needs’. Their pity party has become boring and the public no longer cares or wants to tolerate these two expensive hypocrites. They are now tarnishing the BRF and need to be cut loose. Just go…

  39. blubelle says

    Obviously Markle. This whole thing is hard to watch.… like history repeating itself. Diana had a very difficult time coping with her circumstance and apparently suffered from eating disorders and mental health issues. Harry is now struggling with his own mental health issues that appear to be exasperated by his fame hungry wife. We can’t know what’s really going on behind closed doors, but it’s clearly not good.

  40. notjoking says

    Harry & Meghan
    I think they are a big part of the problem, well she is. No idea why she would alienate him from his family but it looks like she’s getting her way.

  41. GretaGuesses says

    Harry and Meghan

    Meghan is the problem. She’s been oppositional and defiant every since hapless Harry said “I do”. She put a ring through his nose and his 🏀🏀 in her designer handbags. He’s become a shadow of himself.

    Ultimately the Queen is the problem. She should’ve put a stop to these shenanigans from the start. Some papers are printing that the Queen just stripped them of their titles, stopped their $15 million/year payment and thought their going to the U.S. was a great idea.

  43. deepsigh says

    Obviously Prince Harry was the one covered for after the Las Vegas party. At the time I was glad the story sort of went away. I know of a soldier or two who got up to some hi-jinx in LV after serving in the Middle East. Give the man a break.

    Second part is Meghan Markle, and who among us is surprised? She weirdly seems Hell bent on alienating everyone. Family past and present.

    I think this is almost entirely her fault.

  44. Liuliu says

    Megan & Harry

    Who is the problem here?
    I think all of them, but is better to play by rules, than being rebel and than cry in a documentary. Why she isn’t focusing on the charity instead of being a princess?

  46. aaronxp says

    Stupid Harry and Megain… so is true The Queen lectured them…

    About time, I can wait how Megain and her PR retaliate … this is going to get better.

    They did the right time keeping her at arms lenght, they will inevitably get smeared in a future tell-all book/interview… its better not to give her amunition.

    They could see right from the beginning(The Queen and William especially) she came with her own agenda… she was going to Jussie Smullet her way to the top…

  47. Shiba6Peony178 says

    Easy. Meghan Markle. Something needs to be done with this pair. Either sit down and listen and behave like a royal (and live their private life as they wish) or leave without titles, money. I cannot understand how MM could screw a major opportunity up. But, then, she might be more cunning than smart.

  52. yaddayadda says

    Meghan and Harry. They’re all the problem, but I blame the family the most. They could have handled her father better in the beginning and then none of this would have happened.

    Sure, Megs could have done a better job too, but her Dad’s clearly a mess. Even an actress can’t be fully prepared for the impact of all the British tabloids throwing money at their family and friends. The royals should have known and figured this out. It all started with the Dad and snowballed from there.

    • ladycaro says

      My theory is that she didn’t invite her father to the wedding. There were no leaks from him, no pictures, no talking to the media, nothing – even though he had apparently been informed of their relationship since the beginning and had spoken to him/them on the phone multiple times – until about a month before the wedding, when he would have known that he wasn’t receiving an invitation. That was when the bad behavior from her family started.

  53. Kirkerj says

    Harry and Meghan

    The problem is Meghan. She’s not actually bothered by all the attention aside from the fact it’s overwhelmingly negative. She wants attention, she’s a narcissist who can’t see why people don’t like her.

    • amagod121 says

      Harry & MM.
      They both are to blame. I think MM is gaslighting Harry by convincing him his family doesn’t care about him & gaslighting the Royal family by making them think Harry no longer cares for them. Play both sides off each other. Maybe that’s how things were handled in the Markle household: each family member pinging off 1 another like a pin ball in an arcade game. Harry accepts MM’s shabby treatment of his family & subjects but refuses to do anything to address/change it.

  60. Beachbum says

    Harry and Megan. Again. The problem is that she thinks she’s going to bring her brilliant American insight to a very British family that neither wants nor needs her “help”. Harry looks miserable.

  62. ladycaro says

    Prince Harry, Meghan Markle
    She wants to play her game on their field with Hollywood rules. That’s not a successful game plan if she wants to stay in the family. If her end goal is game, she’s playing it the exact right way.
    If she’s on her own, the stories about her past that have been squelched are going to start trickling out.

  65. MademoiselleRose says

    Megan and Harry

    She’s trouble with a capital T. She has been nothing but trouble for Harry and the family since she married him. I don’t like that she appears to me to be pulling Harry away from his friends and family and isolating him. She will end up like Fergie, divorced and on the outer. I know a lot of people don’t like the royals, but I think they learned from Diana and from what I saw they bent over backwards to welcome her into the family.

  66. mary55geelong says

    Meghan and Harry.

    Meghan is the problem.
    Maybe one day she will realise she married the ‘spare’ not the heir.

  69. dagnabbit11 says

    Markle and Harry
    Nothing sounds like a real problem here – but doesn’t seem like she’s doing herself any favors.

  71. Babycham says

    Harry and Meghan.
    Meghan is not cut out for Royal Family life, too many rules and restrictions.

  73. DenverJayhawk says

    Megan Markle

    She’s beyond ridiculous! I don’t understand how she gets away with her behavior because she’s such a hot mess. At least the other royals can hide some of their messes and they go through the motions with their duties. She just scorns them all and the whole institution.

  79. cuesgirl says

    Harry & Mehgan. Problem is the wife. She knew what she married in to and really wants attention.

  80. Bella Ciao Ciao says

    Harry and Meghan. I dont know if she manipules him so much or he was always like this and she embraces the worst of him. I see Harry past cutish beahaviors in a whole new light, not necaserily good for him. He was in previous relashionships with other ladies, and was still on good terms with wills and kate, especially kate who was always smiling ang gigling with him. Now not so much

  82. Suzaloo says

    The Duke and Duchess of Sussex. Who is the problem? Well.. takes more than one to tango.. I’m thinking they are all the problem. The outdated anachronistic system is the problem.

  84. JoshuaTree says

    Meghan Markle and Prince Harry. They’re doing everything they can to burn every bridge with the British royal family. She’s the problems. She wants things HER way and doesn’t want to fit in or follow the rules and protocol of the BRF and has managed to turn Harry against his family in the process. She’s very manipulative. Can’t wait to see what the press will dig up on her past after the lawsuit she filed and the BRF not stepping in to protect her anymore.

  85. aaaPanda says

    It is the not-so-sparkly Megan Markle and her hubby Harry.
    At this point you just have to question who is advising her on strategy and what is her ultimate goal. If her goal is to become divorced with a large settlement, escape the circus that is the British monarchy, and either somehow capitalise on notoriety or just retire? If so she is on track, I cannot see any other outcome.

  87. rexczarina says

    For some reason whenever I read these blinds about the Duke and Duchess of Sussex I can hear Prince Williams’s voice as the source being quoted.

  88. hannahhkate says

    Harry and Meghan.

    Who is the problem?
    Unequivocally, it’s Meghan. You answered your own question when you pointed out that Harry handled “Naked in Vegas” properly. Now that Harry is being influenced by Meghan, though, he is becoming a problem. Very sad, too, because he was very well regarded before she came along.

  89. badgerette85 says

    Markle and the Prince (Harry)
    Op- the Monarchy will always shift into damage control to protect its own and legacy. They will go to all measures to do so.
    If you don’t have to be held accountable for your actions and you have someone to clean up your mess, why would you be on your best behavior???

  91. carriebradshaw says

    Prince Harry & Meghan Markle

    Optional: he’s weak and easily influenced, and she revealed all his anger and worst parts of his personality.

  93. Monysmom says

    Prince Harry and Meaghan Markle. She’s the problem. He knows how things are done and that she’s screwing up and is getting frustrated with her, but he is loyal, and he is determined to make a go of it

  94. Sleepyandconfused says

    Oh that’s social climber Markle and stupid Harry
    All those games they play
    Two entitled privileged jerks.
    I can’t wait till they get what they deserve

  95. theotherwoman says

    Meghan Markle. She is her own problem although Harry feeds into it and makes it way worse.

  98. boyjack4 says

    Meaghan Markle…forgetting who she married in to. Trying to change centuries of tradition, all to get noticed. So fed up with reading about her

  99. beachchick218 says

    Couldn’t happen to a more deserving former Duchess of Sussex. She is getting exactly what she needs. She played and lost.

    Poor Harry….he just picked the wrong partner. He wanted true love and a got a conniving wench. Too bad Diana wasn’t here to straighten him out.

  100. alinaa says

    Migraine and Harry

    She’s the problem. She needs to realise she hasn’t married into a normal family, they won’t tolerate her game playing.

  104. Athena268 says

    Harry of course. Looks like Meghan is starting to leak everything bad about harry. That’s what happens when you trust the snake instead of your own family. And why should they protect meghan when all she’s done is * on them?

  107. floridamonos says

    Harry and Meghan
    Meghan is the problem, I feel sorry for Harry she is every mother in laws nightmare
    I used to feel sorry for her but Shes had too many chances and keeps messing up

  109. GeorgiaR says

    Obviously Prince Harry and Meghan Markle.

    The problem, unfortunately, is Meghan. She married into a family with established traditions. Every family has established traditions to a certain degree, and you have to respect them. She has to start showing some respect, stop complaining, or get out. I feel bad for Harry because I think he was so love struck that he didn’t see what he was getting himself into.

    • luvprue1 says

      I don’t think he was in love. I think he in love with all the attention, and Hollywood stars that he get to hang out with.

  110. charlene2345 says

    Meghan Markle, of course!

    During the first few years of marriage (any marriage, celebrity or not), you need to play nice and get to know your husband or wife’s family. You need to ingratiate yourself, and it’s always an adjustment. In just over a year, seems like she’s managed to instead alienate everyone in the family. SMH. I’ve seen some people write online that she is a narcissist- maybe its true?

    • OhYeah says

      I totally agree and would add that the same thing applies with a new job – which is also what this is. She is a working royal, which is like starting a new job. Of course, what would she know about working a real job?

    • august2019 says

      100 % agree this is also a job – that she signed on for. She seems to think she can collect the paycheck, but not fulfill all job requirements and publicly diss her bosses like a disgruntled employee while getting away with it. I would love a job like that.

  112. Squirrelnutkin says

    So juicy!
    Meghan markle and the royals. She is entirely the problem. She keeps digging herself into a bigger and bigger hole. Interested to find out where this saga will lead…

    • OhYeah says

      I think it will end where it was always going to end: Meghan will have as many kids as she can for the child support and alimony, then she’ll head back to Hollywood and try to live the celebrity life she wasn’t able to accomplish as an actor. But her kid(s) is part of the BRF so it might not be so easy to take them away to another country.

    • luvprue1 says

      It usually lead to an unexpected car accident, or accidental explosion. Megan need to toe the line so it won’t end like that for her.

      I also would hate to see what will happen when Prince Harry gets tired of her. The last king who had a trouble causing wife that the people didn’t like ended up sending her to the scaffold.

  113. trivialtime says

    I’ll take Harry & Meg for the $1000 daily double!

    The family is being who they’ve been for generations. Sounds like Harry could have a steady even keeled life if he would “get with the program”, but he met his “woke” bae who is a psych master manipulator. He really should’ve gone through this phase a decade ago but he’s been so shielded. At least the gossip is good!

  118. kelno19 says

    Meghan and Harry. My thought is Meghan thinks she knows how to play the game better, but the BRF has been playing it longer.

    • Rae1977 says

      Meghan Markle wants to think she’s the new Princess Diana but she’s actually the new Sarah Ferguson. She’s going to eventually crash and burn.

    • aaaDone says

      Considering how long Megan studied planned and plotted to get where she is I am gob smacked at her current unsuitable actions.

      It’s as though she doesn’t know who the Royals are because they excel at the long game! They’ve been in business for over 1000 years.

      Her weak cloying needy & pathetic Princess Di cosplay insults the public’s intelligence. I am eagerly anticipating how the RF will resolve things.

    • annabelle77 says

      This. Am I the only one who is astounded by her arrogance? Who DOES this? Who in the world does she think she is? I’m a strong, self confident woman, and I wouldn’t dream of pulling the crap she does. I’m gobsmacked by her chutzpah!