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Unstable And Creepy

[Blind Gossip] Sometimes infatuation crosses the line.

She is primarily known as an actress. He is primarily known as a singer. They both were extremely popular in the early aughts when they dated. She moved on. He never did. She is still working steadily. Him… not so much.

He left her alone when she was married, but after her marriage broke up, he started contacting her again She doesn’t want anything to do with him. He’s unstable. Mental illness? Alcohol? Drugs? Who knows.

She has told him that she is not interested. He tries harder. He tells her that she is “the one that got away” and that he is not going to make the same mistakes again. She thinks he is creepy. She’s a mom now, and she is worried about the security of her child/ren.

She just wants him to stay away. He will for the next few weeks.

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[Optional] Why do you think he’s still fixated on her?

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  3. Singer: Aaron Carter

    Actress: Hilary Duff

    [Optional] Why do you think he’s still fixated on her? Because she’s very stable. I think he’s looking for something stable and not out of control. Thing is, it’s not HER responsibility to keep him well. She hasn’t been in his life for years. He’s just hitting rock bottom and is reaching out to anyone.

  6. There were always rumors about Charlize Theron and Keanu Reeves, but I don’t think she’s ever been married.

    • I don’t think Keanu is like that at ALL. He doesn’t seem to want to be in a relationship after the death of that woman in his life and it’s completely understandable. And plus, I’ve heard stories of Theron that she’s kind of mean.

    • Pretty sure those were only rumors, anyway. She was recently on a talk show speaking pretty fondly of him and called him her friend.

  8. Is this Hilary Duff and Aaron Carter maybe? Idk.

    If he is, it’s probably because she’s doing so well and still looks great. Let it go, man. Let it go.

  9. Aaron Carter
    Hilary Duff

    He’s probably fixated on her because he was dating her at the highest point in his life/career and now he’s at his lowest he’s irrationally decided that being with her again will help get him back to that point, typical addict behaviour when they’re hitting rock bottom but aren’t ready to admit it is to find another reason to focus on how their life can get better than admitting they have a problem.

    • I think you’re right. He probably thinks that being back with her will magically solve all his problems, but he will never be the person he was when they were dating. I also don’t believe their love story was very significant, it didn’t seem like it lasted very long and it was more like a teenage fling. He is not in a good place and she is right not to want him around her child. He should concentrate on his health.

  15. Singer: Aaron Carter
    Actress: Hillary Duff

    Some people can’t get over their first loves, also, drugs mess up your brain

  20. Hillary duff and Aaron carter

    I think he’s obsessed with her because #1 he was happiest at that time in his life and #2 that’s when he peaked so if he’s back with her then he’ll be back at that level again.

  23. Aaron Carter and Hilary Duff

    His fixation has probably stemmed because of how differently their lives panned out since their break up and he wants what she has with her.

  28. Aaron Carter and Hilary Duff

    It’s bizzarrrrooo

    I think it’s because it represents a time when his career was thriving and he had his life together somewhat. He is stuck there in his head.

  32. Aaron Carter/Hillary Duff
    I think he is having issues and hopes that going back to her, would go back to a time when things were good

  33. Aaron carter
    Hilary Duff

    He’s still fixated because it was probably the last time his life was good.

  40. Oh crap. This has to be Aaron Carter and Hilary Duff. He’s an unstable mess. If I were her, I’d get a restraining order! He shouldn’t even have her contact info.

  53. Aaron Carter and Hilary Duff.

    He is probably still fixated on her because they were together when things were going well in his life and he wants that back. Hopefully rehab (which will keep him away for a few weeks) helps him move on.

  57. Hilary Duff
    Aaron Carter

    Aaron is sick. If he makes it to 30, it will only because he accepts help…doubt that will happen though.

  67. AARON CARTER
    HILARY DUFF

    He’s stuck in the past, probably the last time he remembered ‘normal feelings’ before everything hit the fan with drugs etc. Lots of child stars are abused while young, sexually. I hope he finds therapy and peace.

  68. Aaron Carter
    Hillary Duff

    He’s fixated because he remembers a time when his life was so much better and he wants that back. He thinks that if they were together, he would become the person he wants to be.

  72. Hilary Duff
    Aaron Carter

    Aaron is trying to relive his “glory days”. Sad. He must be drug-addled and delusional.

  73. Marilyn Manson
    Evan Rachel Wood

    Optional: I have no idea, when he left Dita for her I was shocked. Dita seems more like someone who lives in his same lifestyle. While Evan is very plain, she’s not super glamorous. Personally I’ve never seen the appeal in her.

  74. Aaron Carter
    Hillary Duff

    Optional: Because his past was so much greater than his present, and she was a big part of his past. She needs to get a bunch of restraining orders for her and the kids, stat! Creepy!

  79. Ooh – Hilary Duff & Aaron Carter?
    Optional: He’s just desperate and grabbing on for anyone/ anything?

  82. Sounds like Hillary Duff and Aaron carter.

    He always said she was the love of his life.

    Thing is, and this is just me, but he seems pretty messed up. I don’t blame her at all.

    I think he was happiest in his life in general then and so he associates it with her.

  85. Singer: Aaron Carter
    Actress: Hilary Duff

    He’s fixated on her because she’s everything he’s not (minus her divorce, but that’s neither here nor there at this point) and if he does indeed suffer from mental illness and/or addiction, then he mostly likely was a deeply established habit of living in the past, becomes fixated on what was, which will continue to further his inability to become of stable mind, which leads him into a continuously destructive cycle.

  87. The girl in the picture look like Kim Basinger, but the only singer she dated was Prince. So it’s not her. So I think it’s someone similar.

    Singer: Kid Rock
    Actress: Pamela Anderson

  89. Singer: Aaron Carter

    Actress: Hilary Duff

    [Optional] Why do you think he’s still fixated on her? Primarily because she is successful until today, and the other reason would be that she was from the best period of his celebrity life. Trying to relive their relationship brings him back to that age of innocence + relevance in the public eye.

  90. Hillary Duff and Aaron Carter.
    I think I read something about this a while ago? She’s doing OK. He’s a mess and looks like a 40-year-old meth addict at 20-something. I’d get a restraining order at the first chance.

  91. This is very clearly Hilary Duff and Aaron Carter. I hope that while he is in rehab he also gets a clue that she is not interested and leave her alone.

  92. Singer: Aaron Carter
    Actress: Hillary Duff
    Aaron is supposedly off to rehab again. He’s fixated because he knows he could be living the good life now had he stuck with Duff.

  93. Poor Aaron Carter. Hilary Duff doesn’t want you. Find a sugar daddy, you need someone to look after you.

  96. Aaron Carter
    Hillary Duff

    Optional: The time they dated was the last in-love relationship he had before the drugs. The age you start drugs, it is the age you are riveted on for the rest of your life. Starting a life with drugs, stops your life from happening.

  97. Aaron carter is the singer
    Hilary duff is the actress.
    Didnt they date and something w lilo who dated hin too Carter has lost his mind

  100. Evan R Wood and Marilyn Manso dated mid aughts The only other I can think of is Jonathan Davis (before Korn his band was Creep) or Adam Durist who dated everyone.