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The Non Wake Up Call

[Blind Gossip] You probably thought that a recent dramatic event was a wake-up call.

It wasn’t.

She is fighting everybody. Why? Because she does not want to go to rehab!

She doesn’t think she needs it. She thinks it was just one stupid mistake, and if she just hadn’t done [that one, almost-fatal thing], that everything would be fine and everybody would get off her case.

So what does she want to do instead of rehab? Maybe a private therapist. Even though she’s done that multiple times. Maybe a sober assistant, even though she’s already been through at least a dozen of those. They all wind up getting fired or quitting because she is so determined to use.

She’s delusional. And if she keeps ignoring that wake-up call, one day she won’t wake up at all.

Don’t be surprised if you hear that there is 5150 followed by someone filing for conservatorship. Our girl is out of control… and somebody needs to take control of her life.

Similar: The 5150

Girl:

[Optional] Is conservatorship for her a good idea?

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  1. natcat83 says

    I know she reads these blindes , so here is my advice to her .I been in her shituation , she needs to stop focusing on getting completely sober , only a few people can manage that forever .SMOKE LOTS OF WEEED, and watch a lot of series on loop and cut down gradually, over time her brain will stabilise, her nervous system will be calmer , and she wont feel so bad when she is not using . Good luck to her , its a tough and lonely gig which seem to last forever and ever .

  2. Girlfriend says

    This explains why she’s “surrounded by family”–that wench doesn’t want help. She wants to keep getting high and hope not to die from it one day.

  5. dahlia202049 says

    Demi obvi
    I can never understand why someone with means wouldn’t want to go to rehab…you mean I get to go away to a cushy rehab with massage, yoga, acupuncture, healthy food, plenty of sleep, journaling, meditation, and talk about myself all day? Sign me up!!!! They’d probably have to kick me out.

  8. bec215d says

    You can’t force an addict to get clean who doesn’t want to get clean. Two options: have her declared unfit to care for herself so her family can step in to try to force sobriety; or cut her off – walk away completely, and hope in a sober moment she has an epiphany of what she’s lost. Unlike civilian addicts, she’s got money and a home, the absence of which usually causes people to hit rock bottom. Honestly, I think she’s going to die. And I hope Valderama knows he’s partly responsible.

  9. elphie says

    Demi Lovato… if a person doesn’t want help they aren’t going to get it. As a nurse that has worked the ER before and had people come in with overdoses…. if they didn’t want to tell me what they took I looked them in the eye and said… then you are going to die.
    There are so many drugs out there that damage other organs that you can treat BUT only if you know about it early… if the reports are true and she really is severely ill then she has other long term problems

  10. sarphati says

    Poor Demi Lovato. There may not be enough to warrant a conservatorship at this time. Ultimately it is her life to live.

  11. tinker belle says

    Demi Lovato. she is still denying and lying to herself. she needs a break frim everything just to find herself and learn how to love herself xxx

  13. SouthJerseyGirl says

    If Demi Lovato doesn’t get her act together and go to rehab, the next time she overdoses, she may not be so lucky. Addicts are liars and manipulators. She will find someone else to blame instead of herself. I hope she can recover but it’s very difficult.

  14. queenmother8 says

    well of course it’s lovato – she needs someone to take over her care and affairs since she can’t do it – second would be a shrink to see what is pushing her to use drugs as a way of getting attention – I think that;s the real issue here and as long as people keep making it a huge deal it will continue

  15. GretaGuesses says

    Demi Lovato

    Yes, a conservatorship is a good idea. It seems to have helped Brittney a lot. Demi is young and could use some guidance.

  16. fball0921 says

    Demi Lovato

    Conservatorship: You shouldn’t force an adult to do anything they don’t want to do. It’s their choice .

  19. FriskyKitty says

    Girl: Demi Lovato

    [Optional] Is conservatorship for her a good idea? : Will that wake her up or control her ability to use? If yes, then yes. Intervention is probably better before she ends up in the 27 Club.

  25. MikeInSanJose says

    Get some help, Demi Lovato.

    Sadly, you can’t make an addict get sober. Even a court-ordered trip to rehab doesn’t work if the addict really doesn’t think they have a problem.

  26. lillyhippie7 says

    Demi. Yes I think it would be good for her, but before all that, she needs to go to rehab.

  27. freya_ says

    Girl: Demi Lovato
    Honestly, if having an overdose isn’t what it takes for her to want to get sober then this girl is helpless.

  28. NativeAtlantaGirl says

    Obviously Demi. Probably only solution – cannot force someone to be sober, if there is a desire, an addict will find a way. The question is, can her mother actually quit being her daughter’s friend… saw on Demi’s Insta that the only posting she commented on in a while, was one of Demi’s ass hanging out. And it was complimentary.

    Demi, welcome to the Britney club.

  32. aaaPanda says

    Demi Lovato. In the grip of addiction she can no longer make sane decisions. Maybe a conservatorship could save her life.

  36. Jimbohomie says

    Demi Lovato. She probably ODed on oxy or even fentanyl laced cocaine. She is not an heroin addict, if she was one she would deff make better music and be skinny. She is still a junkie and needs an intervention though

  40. luvsdrama says

    Obviously Demi Lovato, I really hope she gets help she needs cause the 27 club could be knocking on her door soon

  42. BDBoop says

    Demi.

    My baby sister was the same. One of the disease symptoms is denial. Not even when she was in jail for a year did she believe she had a problem. Her life ended at 44, chronic/acute alcoholism.

    But at least she didn’t have a problem.

  47. rayodeplata says

    Demi Lovato

    Can’t help someone who doesn’t want it. They can force her to go to rehab, but I don’t think it will make a difference in her.

  55. ncd112 says

    I am not going to say ‘poor demi’ as she brings this all on her own. She is this gen lindsay lohan and will never get better or grow up.

  57. firefly nights says

    Girl: Demi Lovato

    Optional – A conservatorship for Demi is a GREAT idea! If the girl doesn’t WAKE UP and get help soon, she WILL END UP DEAD. This is SERIOUS.

  59. Justmyself says

    Demi and yes… her family needs to reign her in unless they want to plan her funeral. She obviously does not know her limitations when she’s “partying”.

  64. MommyPalooza says

    Demi.

    I think that conservatorship and 5150 holds are terrifying. Live or die, I want the freedom to make my choices and that someone could take that from me, well, it certainly wouldn’t help me heal.

  71. mary55geelong says

    Demi L

    Hopefully someone with her interests at heart will take control and get her the help she really needs.

  73. sjatwood says

    Girl: Demi Lovato
    As long as it is run by someone who truly has her best interests at heart, it might be the only thing that saves her.

  77. msstrick40 says

    Demi Lovato

    5150?? Is that why she hasn’t been released from the hospital yet?? Just in another wing??

  78. GooglyMoogly says

    She wont make it to 30…she seems determined to kill herself. Eventually she will succeed..

    We all know who this is. Its barely a blind anymore….

  82. dadiegirl says

    Demi. I’m not sure about the conservatorship angle. Always seems like they end controlling the person and their money. And it never ends. Look at Britney Spears.

  86. MinnieMe says

    Demi Lovato
    Yes, someone needs to watch over her and her money all the time. Otherwise, she is going to die.

  89. badpenny says

    This could be Selena Gomez or Heather Locklear. Both of them clearly need help now.

  96. RayQueen says

    Girl: Demi Lovato
    Is conservatorship for her a good idea? Not really sure. She doesn’t seem to have a lot of good people who can keep her under control in her life

  98. zappy2050 says

    Demi Lovato.

    Good luck to whoever is around her. Dealt with a drug addict relative for 11 years. Would not wish that on my worst enemy. The lies, the denials, the overdoses, the failed rehabs. That relative is still alive today and YES, still on drugs. As I said, good luck.

  102. amesr09 says

    Sad that Demi Lovato isn’t budging on this. A conservatorship might be the answer though.

  104. whitesox23 says

    Obviously this is about Demi Lovato. She needs to get out of Hollyweird and find new people to surround herself with. She won’t stay sober if she’s around even casual drug use/ users…the family needs to step in before she follows John Belushi, Chris Farley, River Phoenix, and other youn stars who died because of their addictions.

    A conservatorship might not be a bad thing, Brittany seems to have favored decently through hers..

  106. lolachristina says

    Girl: demi lovato

    [Optional] Is conservatorship for her a good idea?
    her mom doesn’t care what she does because she pays the bills, so unless someone else in her family actually cares it’s pointless

    • itstarapagain says

      Agreed completely. I expect one or both parent to swoop in, play savior and pocket conservatorship fees for as long as possible.

  107. FiyahHotFlashy says

    Girl: Demi Lovato

    [Optional] Is conservatorship for her a good idea? Absolutely. It was the best thing for Brittany Spears and Natalie Cole.

  110. amagod121 says

    Demi Lovato. I hope that someone 5150’s her ASAP. She almost ended up as yet another fatal opiod statistic. She’s been given a second chance. Don’t blow it!

  111. SilverLining says

    Demi Lavato
    (Is that the complications her PR team is stating that is keeping her hospitalized? Anyway, this is hard for me to comment as I lost my husband this way, but he was using much less hardcore drugs/prescriptions…similar to Heath Ledger’s situation; I do hope she learns for her sake; as someone who has never tried anything including no more than one glass a wine per year & hates taking ALL medicine, I had to learn ‘tough love’ & it SUCKS, but I have to protect others around me…

    • LilGator says

      I’m almost 100% convinced that “complications” means withdrawal and that she’s probably still in the hospital on methadone or suboxone right now.

  114. Taytay25 says

    This has to be Demi.

    And yes a conservatorship is exactly what she needs. It will save her life because she isn’t thinking clearly.

  116. DenverJayhawk says

    Demi Lovato

    It depends on who would be her conservator. Obviously, her parents have been MIA for years. Now it’s so far out of control, I’m not sure what might help. If there is someone in her life that actually cares about her and will make the tough decisions, she might make it through the next year or two and live. Otherwise, probably not.

  118. xxNYGirl says

    Girl: Demi Lovato

    [Optional] Is conservatorship for her a good idea?: Yes – she needs help getting under control

  123. badgerette85 says

    Demi Lovato
    If she truly wants to live, it’s her only hope.
    This blind makes me so sad. I really thought she may have hit rock bottom and was ready to get well.

    • bec215d says

      Rock bottom usually involves the threat of homelessness and loss of financial support. A wealthy/famous person fears neither, so can live in the delusion of addiction indefinitely, surrounded by parasitic enablers and sycophants who don’t care if they destroy their ‘host’. And unfortunately, where family would normally be the safe space/stop gap, for famous children who support their families, there often is no refuge.

      Demi has to decide life is worth living before she’ll stay truly…