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The Filth Of Secrets And Lies

[Blind Gossip] When this married music couple broke up years ago, they worked really hard to deny the rumors that there was a third party involved.

Even though there was.

The husband was definitely involved in a long-term affair.

Not with another women. With a man.

Both Husband and Wife tried their best to get Third Party – who is also a male singer – to shut up.

Look, the affair was five years long. There were a lot of people who knew!

However, when the affair was eventually leaked by several sources – including a fourth singer – Husband took out his anger on Third Party.

Here is what Third Party said about that.

When I last spoke to [Husband], he told me he wished I was de*d, that he would k*ll me, that I am like c*ncer, that he just can’t get rid of me.

Yikes. That’s harsh!

Thank God I know what he REALLY meant and means by those statements…

Oh? And what is that?

He hates the fact that he can’t rely on me to lie for him, to back up the endless lies he’s told [His Wife]…

Husband told everybody a lot of lies over the years.

Well, I’m sorry, him wanting to murder me because HE is a liar?

That’s called projection.

My side of the street is not only clean, it is fukkin SPARKLING clean!!

Third Party kept Husband’s secrets as best as he could for years, but he is angry that Husband tried to place all the blame on him.

I’m actually very angry with [Husband]. I need to write about the whole thing. The truth about what happened is shocking to the extreme… Ugh, I don’t like being burdened with the filth of secrets and lies.

Husband and Wife divorced. Both have since moved on to other relationships.

Third Party has had a really interesting career, love life, and gender-bending existence. If he wrote a book… we would definitely buy it!

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[Optional] Do you think Wife really had no idea that Husband was bisexual?

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  1. aaablop says

    I have never commented on here before but this is 100% Gwen/Gavin/Marilyn. Secrets and Lies is a song from Gavin’s band Institute and the whole Marilyn thing is such an open secret it’s almost comical to think that Gwen didn’t know.

  2. Missy666 says

    Marilyn is NOT the same singer as Marilyn Manson. And Marilyn was Gavins lover.
    Courtney Love is also involved

  4. Wallcat says

    Husband: Gavin Rossdale
    Wife: Gwen Stefani
    Third Party: Peter Robinson (aka Marilyn)
    [Optional]: unlikely she didn’t know or strongly suspect he was bisexual.

  8. ItsBouquet says

    Gwen Stefani, Gavin Rossdale, and Marilyn?

    I think she really had no idea, or there would be no need for harsh words and secrets to keep it from her.

  9. goodgossip says

    Husband: Gavin Rossdale
    Wife: Gwen Stefani
    Third-Party: Marilyn

    The wife always knows.

  10. radmom says

    Husband: Gavin Rossdale
    Wife: Gwen Stefani
    Third Party: Boy George (aka Marilyn)

    I think she probably did, but when Boy wrote about it in his autobiography, she had to address it

  15. badgerette85 says

    Elton John and his first wife Renata.

    Not sure of third party.
    Op- I think she had to have known or had strong suspicions, but no telling.

  16. MiaIrish says

    Husband: Gavin Rosdale

    Wife: Gwen Stefani

    Third Party: Marilyn

    [Optional] Do you think Wife really had no idea that Husband was bisexual? I think she knew….she modeled her look after him for a while.

  17. Deal With It says

    Husband: Gavin Rossdale
    Wife: Gwen Stefani
    Third Party: English singer Marilyn

    My guess is that Gavin Rossdale hid his bisexuality from Gwen. I don’t think she would have married him and had kids if she had known. The fact that he learned he had a daughter while married to Gwen supposedly also affected their marriage.

  18. cassadaga says

    Husband: Gavin Rossdale

    Wife: Gwen Stefani

    Third Party: Marilyn

    Fourth Party: Boy George

    I’ve been reading this and understanding it as the affair taking place many, many years ago and not while they were married, but perhaps they got reacquainted.

  19. JoeyG1390 says

    Gavin Rossdale
    Gwen Stefani
    Marilyn Robinson
    I think she did know maybe that he explored his sexuality when he was younger but I think she didn’t think it was something that would affect their marriage and chalked it up to youthful sexual exploration.

  21. Weazle says

    Gavin Rossdale
    Gwen Stefani
    Marilyn Robinson

    I think Gwen is an airhead, so she probably didn’t think too much on it.

  23. aaamissp says

    Husband: Gavin Rossdale

    Wife: Gwen Stefani

    Third Party: Marilyn (Peter Robinson)

    I think the fourth singer is Boy George.

  27. TeacherKat says

    Gavin Rossdale and Gwen Stefani?

    Optional: theres no way, those rumours had been around forever!

  28. melrose71 says

    Sounds like Gwen Stefani, Gavin Rossdale and Marilyn. I think Boy George is/was friends with Marilyn and has spoken out about it in the past. Gavin seems like he’s fought tooth and nail to stay in the closet at the expense of Marilyn. I don’t know how sensitive these things are if one person is out while the other isn’t. Threats shouldn’t be thrown around, though. I’m not sure if Gwen did or didn’t know, but she certainly knows how to play the Hollywood “couple” game now.

  30. aaaSwanz says

    Wait –

    3rd party could be Marilyn and the friend of 3rd party could be Boy George?

  31. aaaSwanz says

    After a little online digging, I’m going to guess…

    Wife: Gwen Stefani
    Husband: Gavin Rossdale
    3rd party : Boy George

  32. deliavonteese says

    Clearly Rossdale, Stefani, Boy George – Marilyn? Didn’t Gavin have a relationship with him years ago?

  34. fitzergald says

    Gwen/Gavin/Marilyn. Duh…she would’ve known from the first time he borrowed her mascara (I speak from experience).

  35. MushyPea says

    This is about Gavin Rossdale, Gwen Stefani with Marilyn ( 80’s cross dressing singer) being the third party. The fourth singer that leaked it was Boy George in his book ‘Take it like a man’ .

  38. Theaterfan says

    Husband: Gavin
    Wife: Gwen Stefani
    Third Party: Marilyn

    Oh, she definitely knew and if she didn’t, then she’s an idiot. Marilyn was very honest about it.

  41. JohnDavid says

    Husband: Gavin Rossdale

    Wife: Gwen Stefani

    Third Party: Marilyn

    Fourth Singer: Boy George

  43. rosarybjork says

    Husband – Gavin Rossdale of Bush band
    Wife -Gwen Stephani of Nodoubt band
    Third Party- Peter “Marilyn” Robinson, the british best friend of
    Fourth Party: George Alan O’Dowd “Boy George” and Culture Club band

    or

  45. redstilettos says

    Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale. Don’t know the third party. She may have been clueless.

  46. amagod121 says

    Hmmmmm .. Gwen Stephani and Gavin Rossdale? Or (much less likely) Blake Shelton and Miranda Lambert?

    Optnl: Nope. I think Gwen knew but chose to keep silent on the matter.

  47. Midwestgurl says

    Gavin Rossdale

    Gwen Stefani

    Marilyn.

    No. She knew. It was simply a good for publicity.

  49. Christina X says

    Gavin Rossdale, Gwen Stefani, and Marilyn

    I believe that she knew but was willing to overlook it as long as they made money and had beautiful children.

  50. WorkHardBeNice says

    I may be way off but I’ll guess

    a) Gavin Rossdale
    b) Gwen Stefani
    c) Boy George
    Man oh man what a tangled web we weave!

  51. Fablady says

    Gavin Rossdale, Gwen Stefani, Marilyn and man she dates is Blake Shelton. Other singer is Boy George who confirmed.

  52. susiebaba says

    Husband: Gavin Rossdale?

    Wife: Gwen Stefani?

    Third Singer: Marilyn?

    I can’t see how GS wouldn’t have known if GR had been with M for 5 years. When you listen to her lyrics in No Doubt’s Return of Saturn, she was obviously very torn up and preoccupied with issues in her relationship with GR, before they even got married. Then again, maybe she didn’t know? Some people are very good at concealing things.

  56. viola45 says

    Husband: Gavin Rossdale
    Wife: Gwen Stefani
    Third Party: Peter Robinson aka Marilyn

    Optional: She knew all along.