[Blind Gossip] This good-looking TV actor has been a regular on your small screen for the past couple of decades.
He has done comedy and drama and has starred on several successful TV series in that time. He is on a TV series right now on a major network.
Our actor is a handsome guy who looks equally great in scrubs or a bathing suit. That handsome exterior, though, hides a dark soul.
We’re going to tell you about what it’s like to date him.
It’s not good.
He was dating an unknown aspiring actress. Everything went great for the first couple of months.
He was kind to her and they fell in love. The days flew by and it seemed that they were going to spend the rest of their lives together.
He talked about marrying her and wanted to spend every minute of his time with her.
Sounds great, right?
Then the switch flipped.
Out of the blue, he confessed to her, crying, that he had some sort of unspecified substance abuse problem.
His actions seemed to flip overnight from kind and loving to erratic and jealous and controlling. She was in love with him by this time, though, so she stayed with him.
He seemed convinced that she was cheating on him.
He would regularly demand to see her phone so he could check out her call history and messages.
If she worked on her laptop, he would sit or stand behind her and watch what she was doing.
He would show up at her apartment, unannounced, to look under her bed and in her closet, thinking that she was hiding a man in there.
He would sit in his car outside her apartment for hours, supposedly watching to see who came and went.
Although she wasn’t seeing anyone else and spent most of her time with him, she wanted to appease him.
I even offered to installed cameras in my apartment.
He forbade her from being nice to servers at restaurants – either male or female – because he didn’t want them to get the impression that she was interested in them.
He became very paranoid.
He accused me of being an esc*rt and of getting p*mped out by my agent.
She denied that any of that was true.
Unconvinced of her loyalty, he asked for hard evidence.
He demanded that I take a polygraph test. I said, “Absolutely.”
He hired a polygraph administrator and stayed in the room while she took the test.
Afterward, the polygraph administrator told Actor that everything she had told him – including her name and where she was from – was a lie.
The actor cried for hours over that until she showed him on the Internet that the man he had hired was a fraud.
One day, Actor seemed especially upset with her. He went through her purse and her phone, looking for some sort of evidence that she was cheating on him. He didn’t find anything.
He told her he was going to go into the kitchen to get himself a glass of water.
He came back with the glass of water… and threw it in her face!
Shocked, she went to the bathroom to get a towel to dry herself off. He first tried to block her, then allowed her to pass but followed her into the bathroom.
He pushed her into the shower, turned the shower on, and told her she needed to “clean herself” because of who she had been with.
The next several hours of abuse were a blur. She said that she passed out.
When she awoke, she was on the bed, undressed, wrapped only in a towel. She could tell that he had been crying for hours.
He gave me back my purse, and told me, “You can leave now.”
He had cut up my ID and my credit card and bent my apartment key.
She made it home and stayed in her apartment for several days as she had some marks on her that she didn’t want anyone to see. She then fled to stay with family.
She is no longer dating him.
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Actor and/or TV Show:
[Optional] At what point would you have gotten out of the relationship?
meme123 says
Zack Braff, Josh Brolin, Brian Austin Green, and Donald Faison can all be ruled out because they aren’t known for their handsomeness.
blablabla123 says
@chicagofix I wondered about the link to R. Reynolds as well.. But Nathan doesn’t look like the model in the photo and also I don’t get the clue about swim suit.
chicagofix says
Nathan Fillion
Starred on many shows since the last 90s – 2 Guys & a Girl (with Ryan Reynolds referenced in linked blind), Castle, The Rookie, Firefly, Santa Clarita Diet.
More clues – looks good in scrubs-played a doctor for an arc on Desperate Housewives.
londonchic says
Taye Diggs.
lonewolfie says
Milo Ventimiglia
JToma16 says
Total shot in the dark— Matthew Morrison and Chrishell Stause?
sim1fun says
I hope this isn’t Skeet Ulrich from Riverdale and the Scream movie.
EatMoreToast says
Jesse Williams maybe? He’s on Grey’s and I think he did a beach show or something ages ago ( clues: he looks good in scrubs or a bathing suit). But he’s married isn’t he? So maybe not.
troutpope says
Justin Hartley.
sabrina325 says
Shemar Moore?
Athena268 says
Maybe Patrick Dempsey or John stamos?
jessallison says
Martin Henderson?
njny123 says
The scrubs comment made me think of Matt Le Blanc, who was Dr. Drake Ramoray.
But when I read it again I was left wondering if this is what went down with Matthew Perry and the much younger Lizzy Caplan back in the day. She would have been unknown when they started dating, they were together for awhile, he has been public about addiction issues including entire years wiped from his memory, idk that they fit all the clues though.
gpisces says
Don’t Hassle th Hoff! David Hasselhoff played a Dr on Y&R and then obviously Baywatch. Plus the well documented drinking problems.
sparklett says
Eric Dane
unyuny says
Been reading the comments and see how John Satmos could also fit this.
unyuny says
Tom Welling?
He was in Smallville (hint: small screen) and is now in Professionals.
He used to be a model.
Soooo…. maybe him?
katekatekate says
No idea who it is. But all too many women seem to have no standards and allow men to treat them like trash. Ladies, WHY?
mastik8 says
Zack Braff but only because of the “scrubs” clue.
AmateurGossipHour says
Please don’t let it be Henry Cavil!!
thekatsclaws says
I have no idea who this but I hope they have since received extensive treatment otherwise this behaviour wasn’t & won’t be a one off.
I work in a related field, I’m more aware of warning signs than most, the things that people can explain as them just really “liking me.” 9/10 I’m out if there before we even meet, that may be overly cautious but it’s my choice.
I wish more time was spent teaching people about this type of behaviour, it’s rarely one thing, it tends to be a series…
mayer2816 says
good lord i have no idea. one of GA’s actors?
optional: i can handle mental abuse from partner when i love them but stopping me being nice to waitresses are just ridiculous.
amagod121 says
I wish I knew the answer to this blind but I don’t. This actor’s behavior seems to go beyond just having a dark soul; it sounds like he is mentally ill. He also sounds like someone who could easily snap one day soon.
Optnl: I would have left him after he accused me of cheating the first 2-3 times. Maybe after the 1st time. Most definitely would have told him to hit the road the 1st time he came by unnannounced in order to check under the bed & in the closet for a lover!
ILUVCA4evr says
I first thought Charlie Sheen, but he isn’t on a show right now. Whoever it is, should be 5150’d
Stefanie2530 says
IDK who the actor is and I don’t know if he’s mentally ill or just plain evil, but she should file a police report and get a restraining order. This guy is paranoid and has anger issues. Hope she stays safe
jayayzle says
Josh Brolin? Brian Austin Green? Donald Faison?
Hard call about getting out. It’s like being a frog in a pot. You’ve got to have outside help or a motivator to help you see the dangers. It’s not as easy as it looks, and definitely needs to happen sooner, rather than later, before you are hooked/caught. I know from experience.
cuppycakes01 says
I feel like this is John Stamos. I hope not because he was my first celebrity crush but he does look good in scrubs and did date an actress for about a year who stopped acting shortly after.
parkland45 says
I would’ve been gone the first time he tried to control me.
with a twist says
I was originally going to guess Chris Carmack because the clues fit and the phrase “out of the blue” is similar to “Into the Blue 2” which he was in, but he’s been married for a few years and the blind makes it sound like this guy is still single.
So my follow up guesses are either Taye Diggs or Eric Dane, both of whom fit the clues as well! Both are currently on shows, have previously played doctors on tv, and have had roles where they were often in swimming trunks.
RadioMarty says
Abusive actor.
badgerette85 says
Haven’t a clue on the actor but certainly curious as what is described is some serious psychological issues. I would have left the relationship the first time he demanded to check my phone… distrust is not easily overcome when unwarranted.