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He Changed Their Shapes

[Blind Gossip] Have you noticed that her shape has changed since she’s been with him?

The weird thing is, just about every famous woman he’s ever dated has changed her shape for him.

Remember that ambitious singer he dated years ago? She became very muscular and stringy when she dated him.

Remember that pretty actress he dated after that? She had always had a slim, athletic build, but he asked her to get breast implants.

The lady in his life right now is a multi-talented performer who has always been in shape with curves in all the right places. Now she’s got ripped abs that would make a body builder jealous.

She is saying it’s just for a role but it’s really for him. He’s the one who pushed for the six pack. Now he’s bragging, “I did that!”

It is odd that these accomplished and famous women all significantly changed their bodies – through diet, exercise, or plastic surgery – when they were with him.

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[Optional] Is this normal? What’s going on here?

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  1. Bunniest says

    Man: Alex Rodriguez

    Singer: Madonna

    Actress: Cameron Diaz

    Multi: Jennifer Lopez

    Not normal. He either has body dysmorphia, is a narcissist or is in the closet. Or any combination of the preceding.

  3. PrettyInPink84 says

    Alex Rodriguez
    Madonna
    Demi Moore
    Jennifer Lopez

    I don’t put it all on him. With Puff Daddy she was rocking corn rolls, wearing bandana head bands & track suits. Married a backup dancer and started dressing all boho chic. Left him for gorgeous hot mess Ben Affleck, started dressing more A-list looking & classy (although she isn’t really very classy). Married Marc Anthony, suddenly she’s all about her Latin roots making nothing but Latin music. Sad that she emulates em to keep em…

  4. xxNYGirl says

    Man: A Rod

    Singer: Madonna (‘ambitious’ = Blonde Ambition Tour)

    Actress: Cameron Diaz

    Multi: Jennifer Lopez

    [Optional] Is this normal? What’s going on here?: NOPE

  5. smeam123 says

    A Rod
    Singer Madonna
    Actress Cameron Diaz and or Kate Hudson
    Multi- JLO

    he needs to get a grip, he ain’t all that.

  7. guesstion says

    A Rod
    Madonna-clue-ambitious “Blonde Ambition “
    Uuuummm….Minka something?
    J Lo
    He’s turning women into the men he fantasized about in the locker room

  12. beach_disco says

    Man – A Rod
    Singer – Madonna
    Actress – Cameron Diaz/Kate Hudson
    Multi – JLo

  16. sherri says

    Alex Rodríguez
    Madonna
    Kate Hudson
    Jennifer Lopez

    He’s controlling and narcissistic.

  18. luvprue1 says

    Man: A-Rod
    Singer : Madonna
    Actress: Cameron Diaz
    Multi: JLo

    Optional: Nope. He has some type of fetish. He wants them all to go a cup,or two larger. He small breast women, but than he suggested they get a boon job. He might be getting kick back from the breast enlargement surgeon he sends them to.

  19. Jthenurse says

    Man: A Rod
    Multi (current): J Love
    Singer: Madonna
    Actress: Cameron Diaz
    Is it normal? No, but he has a knack of choosing women who respond to his controlling personality by trying to keep him happy with their body mod. For J Lo and Madonna, a contributing factor is their utter terrorof growing older.

  20. Atika says

    Man: A.Rod
    Singer: Madonna
    Actress: K. Hudson
    Multi: J.Lo

    Wrote this months ago when he started to take her to the gym each day. He likes his women bodybuilder-style, that’s why I believe the cheating rumors. Both that ex-wife of that former yankee-player and the porn-star are uber-muscular. TRUE!

  21. umakompton says

    Man: A-Rod
    Singer: Idk
    Actress: Cameron Diaz? Kate Hudson?
    Multi: J-Lo

    No this is whack!!!

  22. FancyPants says

    ARod
    Madonna
    Cameron Diaz
    JLo
    Maybe he tells them that’s what he likes and if they don’t get into shape, he’ll ship out?

  23. deering says

    Hmm, this is tough. But, no, it’s not normal. The guy’s a control-freak after the “ideal” woman, which no one could live up to. Why would smart women put up with this?

  26. charlene2345 says

    Man: A-Rod

    Singer: Madonna

    Actress: Kate Hudson (10 years or so ago, while dating him, she suddenly had a fuller figure)

    Multi: Jennifer Lopez

    [Optional] Well, considering he is a known cheater and will likely continue to be one, J-Lo is probably trying to change her body to keep him. You would think with her own terrible relationship history she would have learned not to compromise herself for a man, but she never seems to. I hope she’s prepared for divorce #4.

  27. sogeni says

    Man: Arod
    Singer: Madonna
    Actress: ??
    Multi: JLo

    [Optional] Is this normal? What’s going on here? Not normal. Doing ‘roids together??

  28. stickaforkinit says

    Man : A Rod
    Singer : JLO
    Actress: Cameron Diaz
    Previous singer : Madonna
    Its not normal its pathetic and he likes masculine bodies (hmm)

  29. missluv60 says

    Arod
    Madonna
    Either kate hudson or Cameron Diaz
    J-Lo
    Hey He likes what he likes.

  30. Mumumumu says

    Man: Alex Rodriguez

    Singer: don’t know

    Actress: Cameron Diaz

    Multi: Jennifer Lopez

  36. aaaXenz says

    Man: Alex Rodriguez

    Singer: Madonna

    Actress: Cameron Diaz

    Multi: Jennifer López

  38. Honey16 says

    A Rod
    Madonna
    Cameron
    Blog

    My guess is, the man’s ****game is strong. Why else would these successful women change for this man?

    • LizardQueen says

      Low self-esteem or sense of self 🤷🏾‍♀️
      Successful doesn’t mean those things.

  39. LizardQueen says

    A Rod

    Multi: JLo

    I can’t think of the others off the top of my head. It goes to show that “accomplished” doesn’t always equate to a healthy sense of self/self-esteem!

  40. reality check says

    It’s called testosterone injections. Very Ropey arms- take a look at RHNY to see it in action. Madonna, Cameron Diaz Kate Hudson all classic
    Now Bethany Franken with her weird muscles and temper fits, looks like LuAnn joined in this year . Jason Hoppy should be asking for a Hair drug test on Frankel

  41. annabelle77 says

    This is ARod and JLo. And I suspect that he’s really gay and wants a man. WTF is wrong with these women? I would never stay with a man who tried to change me like that!

  45. mss03166 says

    Arod
    Singer madonna
    Actress Cameron Diaz
    Multi Jennifer Lopez

    Not normal but I guess he likes muscles or manly shapes??

  49. gossipluv81 says

    ARod and JLO. She seems like his usual time. He seemed to like more muscle bound women. JLO is why to mature to change herself for a man

  50. quokka says

    man: alex rodriguez
    singer: madonna
    actress: probably kate hudson but maybe cameron diaz?
    multi: jennifer lopez

    optional: it’s “normal” in that it’s common. he’s a skeeze though. can’t understand why these ladies go for him

  55. miss_tj says

    Man: ARod
    Singer: Madonna
    Actress: Cameron Diaz
    Multi: JLo

    He’s turning them into his “ideal”, which is kind of masculine (?). The funny thing is that each of these women like to present as strong and independent – how is he able to manipulate them?

  57. kittypryde777 says

    Man: Alex Rodriguez
    Singer: Madonna
    Actress: Cameron Diaz
    Multi: Jennifer Lopez

  60. boyjack4 says

    Arod
    Singer?
    Cameron Diaz
    JLo
    He’s a controller. Ione JLo doesn’t change too much because she’s always been perfevt

  61. Jelly Drop says

    Jlo
    A-Rod
    Madonna
    Cameron Diaz

    It is very odd. It is like a cult. And he isn’t that, well, good looking in my opinion. Strange.

  62. foraccts says

    Easy peasy. This is ARod and his current project JLo. Ambitious singer is Madonna and the pretty actress is Cameron Diaz. Didn’t his wife look manly muscled too? I don’t know what is going on except that maybe ARod really likes men so muscles of his feminine soft gallies.

  64. JoshuaTree says

    A-Rod

    Madonna

    Kate Hudson or Cameron Diaz. I think they both got boob implants for him and both got insanely ripped. Cam in particular.

    J-Lo. Her ripped abs have nothing to do with playing the manager of a strip club in a movie. They’re getting almost unnaturally muscular for her body type.

  65. dadiegirl says

    A-Rod, J-Lo and others.

    He’s a control freak who attracts insecure women. I can see encouraging someone to work out but plastic surgery is taking it to far. Plus he’s a cheat? Next!

  68. sofiamoreno says

    A rod
    I dont know the singer
    Actress: cameron diaz or kate hudson
    Multi: J-lo

  71. x.sophie.x says

    ARod and JLo
    He comes off as such a sleeezebag. But strangely I think they both suit each other.

  72. allurbasebelongstome says

    man: a-rod

    singer: Madonna

    actress: Cameron Diaz

    Multi: Jennifer Lopez

    Optional: He is in the closet and he is changing these women to fit the more hardbody, masculine physique that he’s attracted to. He is from a machismo culture & he’s a pro athlete in a testosterone-driven sport so he can’t live an out life. The women may or may not be aware of his preferences, but clearly what he wants is not these ladies, but he tries to mold them into fitting his ideals.

  73. spicyone says

    Man: ARod
    Singer: Madonna
    Actress: Cameon Diaz
    Multi: JLo

    I think he likes men and thats why he likes his women to have muscular bodies

  74. MercyStreet says

    JLo clearly has cripplingly low self esteem and craves attention. Girl, you don’t need a man to make you whole. I can’t imagine how exhausting she must be. Plus wasn’t this a fake relationship too? I don’t get it.

  75. quinner says

    Arod and jlo and all the others. If you change your shape does it mean you too will not end up with him. Hes not attractive. At all. Imo.

  78. amagod121 says

    Man: ARod
    Singer: Madonna
    Actress: Cameron Diaz
    Multi: JLo

    Optional: Eh, I guess it’s “normal” if all of these women want to change themselves so drastically for ARod. Not sure why they all wanted to date him, though, because he’s a known MAN-H0.

  82. montebell says

    Lopez does look incredibly fit, but she looked fine before. I don’t care for either of them, way too overexposed. But he shouldn’t dictate her appearance and she shouldn’t let him. He’s not much to look at and besides being with her, what else does he do?

  83. Elisabet4 says

    Man: Alex Rodriguez

    Singer: Madonna?

    Actress: Cameron Diaz

    Multi: Jennifer Lopez

    Optional: No I do not think that’s normal, and also I’m confused why so many women that are good looking like him?

  85. amleschik says

    Man: A Rod

    Singer: Madonna

    Actress: Cameron Diaz/Kate Hudson

    Multi: Jello J .Lo

    [Optional] Is this normal? What’s going on here? No, not normal. A Rod has a small peen and Jello is insecure. Relationship will not last!

  91. CanaryCry says

    Getting an ARod vibe from this …
    Ambitious singer – Madonna
    Implants – Kate Hudson
    Current lady – J. Lo

  92. Gerseychick says

    ARod is so Gross
    Madonna
    Kate Hudson got boobs for him..
    Cameron Diaz
    He always cheated on his wife Cindy the Mother of his 2 daughters…
    All these ladies deserve better then this nauseating baseball player..
    He is the happiest with his ego and a mirror….

  96. meruhdith says

    Man: A Rod

    Singer: Madonna?

    Actress: Kate Hudson?

    Multi: J Lo

    [Optional] Nope//Nothing good

  97. SouthJerseyGirl says

    Arod and Jlo.

    It’s his type. Be with him and accomodate that or he’ll find someone who will. Women who change who they are to please someone else end up being unhappy. If she likes her new body though, that’s fine.

  98. yashenny says

    Man: A-Rod

    Singer: Madonna

    Actress: Cameron Diaz

    Multi: JLo

    [Optional] Is this normal? What’s going on here? He has plenty of free time now, so he probably spends a lot of it in the gym.

  102. Bondgrl85 says

    J-Lo~ I hope she does not think that is attractive, her body looks rock hard and not feminine at all!!!!!!

  109. MiaIrish says

    Man: Alex Rodriguez

    Singer: Madonna

    Actress: Kate Hudson

    Multi: Jennifer Lopez

    [Optional] Is this normal? What’s going on here? Normal for him, maybe….he probably charmed them into doing what he wants.

  113. goodgossip says

    Man: ARod
    Singer:Madonna
    Multi:JLO

    Optional: maybe he is attracted to men and likes a little of masculinity in a woman.

  114. ghostrider44 says

    A-Rod
    Madonna
    Cameron Diaz
    J-Lo

    No it’s not normal. He definetly has a type and it is not Jennifer. He has always liked super muscular, masculine looking blondes. I wouldn’t be surprised if Jennifer starts changing her hair color soon. I also suspect she is taking HGH because her face is becoming more masculine while she is also getting ripped. Pesrsonally I think Alex also likes guys….

  117. goodgollyholly says

    Man: ARod

    Singer: Madonna

    Actress: Cameron Diaz

    Multi: JLo

    [Optional] Is this normal? What’s going on here? No – not normal. He is controlling and likes really muscular woman.

  118. sans72 says

    Alex Rodriguez
    Madonna
    Cameron Diaz
    Jennifer Lopez

    Very controlling behaviour from him. Do they think if they do as he wants, he won’t cheat? Never gonna happen.

  120. cindycgy says

    Man: A-Rod

    Singer: Madonna. They have never officially dated. It was simply a hookup.

    Actress: who cares

    Multi: Jlo

  121. IcePrincess says

    Jlo and arod. He’s too particular, definitely likes his women cut! No way is this going to work out for the long term. Pun intended…

  123. nycmadam says

    A-Rod
    Singer: Madonna

    Actress: Cameron Diaz or Kate Hudson

    Multi: J Lo

    The man is a control freak. Yuck.

  125. KatarinaJ says

    SO obvious this is J Lo w A-Rod. I have honestly wondered if he sees Trannies. He wants biceps, wiry muscles and then BOOM fake boobs on a muscular skeletal build. I can’t believe J Lo who has been posting transformation pics lately is doing this and frankly can’t believe A Rod was even into her to start given her booty etc. WHY ladies? get in shape for yourself. not some random cheater never keeps it in his pants if he finds a stripper who fits the bill lame-sports-announcer FLABBOO HAS BEEN.

    • KatarinaJ says

      oops meant to say look at exes (his wife) – Cameron Diaz, Kate Hudson (?) and Madonna. Plus he is NOT into latin women OR curvy women so J Lo is about her money and his relevance. NO way is he into her and this is ZERO knock on her but a commentary on his taste or lack there of. GET AWAY as fast as you can. Dude wants to stay famous, spend you money while keeping his AND make you into a blowup doll of his devising.

  131. Raveon says

    A. Rod. He seems more feminine everyday, like he’s leaking testosterone….and since they so love to document their lives, you can actually watch it happen. I thought J.Lo was just slowly emasculating him, turning him into a glorified errand boy and sidekick, dressing him like he’s her ken doll, putting makeup on him, etc. He eats it up, cuz let’s face it, no one really cares about him without her around. BUT, maybe he likes to be the soft, submissive one in the relationship? Hmmmmm….

  133. floridamonos says

    Man A-Rod
    Singer Madonna
    Actress Kate Hudson snd Cameron Diaz
    Multitalented 🙄 JLo
    I personally dont think this is normal, IMO if you love someone you love them unconditionally

  139. carriebradshaw says

    Man:Alex Rodriguez

    Singer:Madonna

    Actress:Cameron Diaz

    Multi:JLo

    [Optional] Is this normal? What’s going on here?
    I wonder why he can’t date exactly this type person he’s trying to create?

    • Whisper says

      Control freak, must be- he likes to see his conquests jump at his command then gets bored & moves on (& forgets to tell them). Some very successful yet insecure women- breast implants can’t easily be undone- awful.

  141. surfsunsand05 says

    Man: A Rod
    Singer: Madonna
    Actress: Either Kate Hudson or Cameron Diaz
    Multi: Jennifer Lopez

  143. eddieslady84 says

    Man:

    Singer: Madonna

    Actress: Cameron Diaz

    Multi: JLo

    No it’s really weird, especially b/c it happens EVERY TIME…he may just be into super buff ladies, but I’ve always thought it seemed more like deep down he was really into guys and instead of admitting it (to himself or the world) he just tries to make his female companions as masculine as possible…

  146. TexasHeat says

    Man: A-Rod (Alex Rodriguez)
    Singer: Madonna (Blonde ‘ambition’)
    Actress: *not sure*
    Multi: Jennifer Lopez

    It’s not normal. He must have the “magic stick” for these women to do so much for him…

  147. reen57 says

    A Rod and J. Lo.
    He’s gotta be very persuasive to do that to all the women in his life. Either that or there’s something in it for them.

  148. Sharper_Teeth says

    Man: ARod
    Singer: Madonna
    Actress: Kate Hudson (or Cameron Diaz)
    Multi: JLo

    Optional: He has a wandering eye (I mean, can we even call it wandering?? more like it’s lost), so she’s trying do be his ideal, but she’s pretending it’s for a movie. She always prided herself on her femininity and curves, so this is weird.

  149. OhIthinknot says

    Alex Rodriguez

    Control freak
    No, it is emotional abuse. None of these women will ever be good enough for him.

  150. humblehoosier says

    JLo & Arod. I think it’s sad she still hasn’t learned her lesson after so many failed relationships. She ignores all the red flags then wonders why it doesn’t work out. She needs two years alone minimum.

  153. zappy2050 says

    A Rod. He likes muscles rubbing against him – not sure why? Madonna looked awful (well more awful than usual) when she dated him. Cameron Diaz looked a 113 year old boy who just started body building. Jlo’s nice curves are slowly disappearing – replace by a very muscular physique. Very disturbing.

  157. Sarron714 says

    Arod
    Jlo
    Cameron Diaz
    I don’t know the names of the other women, but want one of them a wrestler?

  158. macmac says

    A ROD JLO. something wrong with a man who likes 6 packs on women wouldn’t you say? HUH

  160. BluntSavage says

    Man: Alex Rodriguez
    Multi: JLo
    Is this normal? What’s going on here? Not normal. He’s just seeing what he can get away with. If the woman complies, he knows she’s desperate and doesn’t fall for her which explains why he’s cheating on her and every other one. I don’t know what the hell JLo is thinking and doing.

  161. LaBellaVida says

    Man: Alex Rodriguez

    Singer: Madonna

    Actress: Kate Hudson

    Multi: Jennifer Lopez

    No, this is not normal. I think he might be deeply closeted.

    • showmancer says

      @LaBellaVida

      THIS. ARod = closeted.

      reminds me of that dancer/boytoy that was also closeted & used as youthful arm candy for JLo.

    • reality check says

      They are clearly all taking testosterone. Another example is Bethany Frankel, these weird bodies with freaky muscles. I think she has Luanne and Sonya on it now