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She Was In It For The Long Haul

[Blind Gossip] She made a mistake in her relationship with him.

She thought he had changed.

When they first started dating, she was unsure of their compatibility. After all, he was very educated and very analytical while she had a high school diploma and an affinity for the creative arts.

What did they have in common?

She liked that they shared a sense of humor. She also liked that he let her “do her thing” as far as her career was concerned and never tried to interfere or control her. Same from her side.

What went wrong?

He gets bored easily. Even though she is definitely not a boring person he wanted to include other people in thier relationship.

Did she know that he has a history of doing that?

He’s the one who told her about it! She knew from the beginning. It wasn’t like he blindsided her with some deep dark secret.

Maybe he thought that she would be into it because she is a creative type but she told him that she was not into that. He said okay. She assumed that meant that he was willing to be different in this relationship and it would only be her.

She thought they would eventually get engaged and get married. That’s not her imagination, by the way. He was the one who brought it up.

After they had been together for a while, she felt more secure thinking that he was committed to their relationship for the long haul and he really had changed.

So, had he changed? No.

Then he told her that she “needed to be more flexible” and he started pushing for a third again.

“He knows he can have anything he wants and anyone he wants” so this puts her in a bad position.

Oh, boy. It’s difficult to know if she had been naive in thinking he had actually changed… or if he really meant to change but just could not… or if he just allowed her to get settled in before springing this demand on her.

In any case, she is in a tough spot. Some might say that he is in a superior negotiating position. Does she acquiesce to his demands or kiss the relationship goodbye?

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Couple:

[Optional] What should she do? How do you think this will all turn out?

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Comments

  1. gossipycat says

    Grimes and Musk.

    She should get out of there. He has a history of dumping his partners once they hit 30 and I knew she’d get hurt from the beginning. The whole relationship gives me 50 Shades vibes, but a more realistic version where the dude is messed up but doesn’t actually change.

    • victor says

      Agreed. Elon=textbook grandiose narcissist with daddy issues (Narcissism is sustained by unforgiveness). Also, Autism is a family of disorders, he is not healthy minded while yet, widely successful in his business life …a juxtaposition.

      Psychotic Amber H introduced Elon to sexual deviant behaviors and he now thinks he’s the “cool kid” who wants more of it. Narcissist cannot tolerate rejection and he most likely still longs for sociopath Amber. He has the emotional intelligence of a teen.

  2. mimiyou says

    – Elon Musk –
    Have you ever seen him with any of the 5(!) children from his two previous marriages? No. Poor X Æ A-Ⅻ seems to be a prop until he founds a new company, etc.

  3. keyrobi42 says

    It’s 100% Elon and Grimes. He’s notorious for threesomes/wanting an open relationship. It’s sad how much Grimes has changed for him. He seems the type to hold all of the power in the relationship. I also think she might be pregnant again based off of her recent tiktoks. Just seems like a toxic relationship 🙁

  4. LawChick2000 says

    Kim and Kanye. Although most of the blind could also fit Kylie or Hilaria, I don’t see Travis Scott or Alec Baldwin as unpredictable. Kanye is definitely unpredictable.

  8. darkrose says

    Elon Musk and Grimes, who now have a child with a nonsensical name. She needs to get a firm child support agreement in place and walk away the relationship. I don’t think Elon has a huge interest in being a hands on daddy and I hope it doesn’t turn ugly for the sake of their child. If someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.

  9. ItsBouquet says

    Does she acquiesce to his demands or kiss the relationship goodbye?

    Kiss the relationship goodbye! Both people have to be comfortable in the relationship. This is your one life, don’t waste it with the wrong person.

  11. Fluffy Lilac Slippers says

    Elon Musk and Grimes.

    If it’s not something she wants to do she should walk away. He wont change.

    • Acheronbeach says

      He was a misogynist even during his first marriage. Justine Musk’s 2010 article was damning. He’s a mess and she doesn’t come off much better being with him.

    • GirlPlease says

      “She thought they would eventually get engaged and get married. That’s not her imagination, by the way. He was the one who brought it up.”

      Kim and Kanye were married, though. This couple didn’t make it that far.

  15. rayodeplata says

    Elon Musk and Grimes

    She should get out of there, but she probably won’t because would lose the lifestyle she’s had, and since they’re not married I’m not sure if she could get alimony or something.

  16. dftbkatie says

    Couple: Grimes & Elon Musk

    [Optional] She should leave the relationship and pursue allllll the dollars for child support.

  22. KittyKat says

    Sounds like Elon Musk and Grimes. She should move on- he seems like a truly awful and gross person and it reflects poorly on her to stay with him. I got the impression that people respected her work before she got involved with him.

  26. Gerseychick says

    Elon Musk and his baby mama Grimes…Apple doesn’t fall far from the tree…I believe his father married his stepdaughter…Gross….

  28. blablabla123 says

    I don’t know who this is, but when someone is pushing hard for you to break your personal boundaries – that is a red flag. If he is not happy with the relationship he should leave, otherwise he should respect her boundaries.

  29. Marybel says

    Send him packing. NO ONE changes. Pick the one you want for life, not one you think you can alter.