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Wounded Little Boy

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[Blind Gossip] While everyone is up in arms about how to deal with a couple of members of this famous family who are seemingly beyond their control, an insider provides a glimpse as to exactly how it happened.

She was quite cunning. She talked to him about his mother all the time. She used the pain he felt about losing his mother to make him rely on her and to turn him against everyone else in his family.

She told him that he is actually “a wounded little boy” and that his family was  wrong for making him act stoically. She also told him that he should never forget how terribly his family treated his mother.

She encouraged him to talk about his feelings and told him the more he lets the sadness and anger out both privately and in public, the sooner his pain would heal. He cried with her and she comforted him like his mother would.

She told him that once he was able to choose for himself and act independently from his family, they would fulfill his mother’s legacy together.

This does explain his recent surge in discussing his feelings in public… his newfound temper… as well as his alienation from his family.

But did he simply trade one controlling entity for another?

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Couple:

His Mother:

[Optional] Do you think his mother would have approved of her? Why or why not? Please use people’s real names.

SOLVED!

Couple: Meghan Markle and Prince Harry

His Mother: Princess Diana

Who told you weeks ago that Meghan Markle told Prince Harry that he is “wounded” and that he needs to be “healed”?

Your friends at Blind Gossip, that’s who!

Yes, we are very fortunate to have such good sources.

And guess what? He is not the only one to whom Meghan Markle is communicating that EXACT same message!

From Metro:

Meghan Markle says “We’re all wounded creatures that need to be healed” in bakery visit

Meghan Markle said that humans are not ‘mechanical objects that need to be fixed’, while visiting the Luminary Bakery’s Camden Branch.

The 38-year-old joined in the session with disadvantaged women and listened to a number of stories about drug abuse, homelessness and being in prison, The Daily Telegraph reported.

She lamented a ‘culture of instant gratification’ where people want an ‘instant fix’, saying humans must instead be seen as ‘wounded creatures that need to be healed’.

The Duchess, who has been a vocal mental health advocate, previously highlighted the project when she guest-edited an issue of British Vogue.

Speaking to Tanya, a woman who was stabbed repeatedly by a violent ex-partner, Meghan said: ‘We get into this habit of wanting things done immediately nowadays. There’s a culture of instant gratification, of the instant fix. ‘But we aren’t mechanical objects that need to be fixed. You’re a wounded creature that needs to be healed, and that takes time.’

Frankly, Meghan Markle’s messaging gives us whiplash.

You are strong… because you are wounded! I’m hopping on another private jet… because I care about the environment! I’m wearing this $13,000 Givency dress… because instant gratification is bad for you!

Now she is supporting mental health causes… while her own husband seems to be having a mental breakdown!

You can’t deny that Prince Harry has changed dramatically since he has been with her. Harry seems to become weaker and unhappier and angrier and more estranged from his family and friends with every passing month.

Is this part of the healing process to recover from the passing of Princess Diana more than twenty years ago? Or is this the way Meghan Markle manipulates him? Is she convincing him that he is wounded… and that she is the solution to heal him?

It remains to be seen how this will all turn out.

Congratulations to Willowtree for being first with the correct response!

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  1. Scrappys says

    Meghan knows best when it comes to healing and family, I mean, just look at how amazing she is with her dad and siblings! Roflmao! Harry should have gotten a clue when she played the victim with him, but instead he welcomed her narcissistic pathological behaviour into his life. He will lose his family and when he finally wakes up it will be hard to mend those fences. For the sake of his child, I hope he wakes up faster.

  2. Whisper says

    Yes healing isnt the same as a quick fix. Yes people are too immediate-gratification oriented. Yes she wears expensive clothes and agrees to fly in private jets. But in this family, jets are a given, I imagine she could cut back on clothing expense. Yes also to the fact she must have had some idea of the royals rigid ways. If there’s evidence Harry is emotionally collapsing, that’s bad. And yes again- if they didn’t want to stay with the Royals, they could leave. Diana did.

  3. beepbeep81 says

    I know she has come off as a bit eager to shake up the RF (I would be, too) but if she is so bent on using their resources for her own gain, why would she simultaneously be trying to get Harry to distance himself or even possibly break away completely?

  4. aaaAnonny says

    Holy sh*t, Blindgossip really hit the nail on the head with the “wounded” quote. This is eery.

  5. montrealaise says

    If nothing else, the timing of their interviews in the documentary sucks. What have they accomplished? 1. Drew attention away from their trip to Africa and the work they did there. 2. Drew attention away from William and Catherine’s historic trip to Pakistan. 3. Drew attention away from Charles’ trip to Japan. 4. Drew a lot of attention for themselves – some positive, some negative. Did they even think about the consequences?

  6. ghostrider44 says

    I have seen people who are estranged from their family create drama so their spouse or partner becomes estranged from their family too. I think it’s a way of trying to alienate the partner so they don’t lose them too. However over time it can backfire. I think this is what Megan has done to Harry.

    • Ramblingirl says

      I’ve seen the same. They are very territorial and it’s understandable. They’ve had to fight to hold on to anything and anyone. They get the loved one to themselves…make them prove their allegiance…it’s us versus them.

  7. AHHAof3 says

    With my background in marriage and family counseling, I can say that what she said in her speech was mostly correct. Whether she’s altruistic or disingenuous, I can’t say for sure, but there’s nothing wrong with her speech. Not sure if she’s just being manipulative, BUT if becoming a father has brought a lot of old wounds to the surface in Harry, it wouldn’t surprise me: that happens quite often (sometimes as soon as a baby is born, sometimes when the child is a bit older). So who knows? Not me.

  8. Drew12345 says

    I am torn about this. I do see some of the things Harry and Meghan are doing as manipulative and hypocritical. You can’t pick and choose when you want to use the media for sympathy/good PR and then also criticize them. I guess you can try lol however mental health is very serious and I think Harry (or anyone) should be allowed to have boundaries and work through deeply rooted issues. I hope a professional therapist is involved. Is it unreasonable that he has emotions and feelings that need attn?

  9. KendraATL says

    Narcissists are pros at reading people and using their vulnerabilities to manipulate emotions. Meghan was well aware of Harry’s wounds even before they met after stalking her way into his social circle. As a profoundly narcissistic personality type, it’s to her advantage to reopen Harry’s emotional wounds and keep them open and raw. So much easier to exploit and manipulate him via his dead mother in order to move her agenda forward to enhance ‘Brand Sussex,’ which pre-Harry was ‘Brand Meghan.’

  10. silimom says

    They are the Wallis Simpson/Duchess of Windsor and Edward VIII/Duke of Windsor of this generation. Harry, if you alienate your family, your father or brother will remove you from the Civil List of paid, working royals. You’ll be given an allowance but nowhere near enough to realize your mother’s legacy or satisfy your wife. Unlike Wallis, she will then divorce you, demanding and receiving a large settlement and child support for the two children you will have, take the kids and leave.

  11. EllaKos says

    So WRONG to use platform of Royal Tour of Duty in Africa, of all places!!, as a stage to vent own personal war on RF and the Media, Convenient if one considers the Markles are presently focussed on suing certain tabloids. However very DISTASTEFUL, UNNECESSARY AND UNKIND especially to the deprived African people who truly struggle and NEED a VOICE !! Lack of empathy and poor judgement. Narcissism indeed!

  12. EllaKos says

    Poor judgement, lack of empathy and deeply offensive for the Markles to turn a Royal Tour of

  13. Yoyowoman says

    He has more scrutiny in his life because he’s a Royal – it comes with the job. If they like it, they can leave.
    Diana had hassle from the press but also used them to get her message out when it suited her, same as these two are doing.
    Lastly, she died because she was driven by a drunk driver and for whatever reason decided not to wear her seatbelt. In short, the press may have contributed to the circumstances leading up to the crash, but they didn’t kill her. Her poor decisions did that.

  14. august2019 says

    Harry and MM.

    I really don’t get this act. If they are so against the ways of the royal family, then they should deactivate from the family and stop robbing British tax payers. Being in the RF is a job and commitment and there are protocols and procedures. You can’t take the $$ but then not share your life and act like a public servant when it suits you.

    • august2019 says

      When they insinuate things about the RF and speak out against them publicly it’s more than going against family; it is actually like speaking out against your boss. The Queen is more a boss figure to Harry than a Grandmother. They are the ones breaking from protocol and not following the playbook. I see it as being openly divisive and insubordinate.

  18. Lilyboxer says

    I don’t know why people have such antipathy towards the Duchess of Sussex, I honestly don’t.
    She married a royal prince and is an attractive glamour girl, something which the RF PR haven’t wasted any time exploiting.
    Harry is an adult. None of us know the profound psychological hurt it caused an 11 year old boy to walk behind his mother’s coffin stone faced, in front of an entire nation.
    She has obvious parallels with his mother, hence the attraction.
    But the press need to back off…

  19. nikkimermaid says

    Markle. To insinuate that she manipulated him, or controls his mind and behavior is a serious stretch. People are really reaching. Harry is a grown adult with his own mind and makes his own decisions. Perhaps he’s been wanting to rebel and move away from the monarchy for years and this is his opportunity to spread his wings and live his life untied. It’s getting pretty ridiculous how bad the Royal press team is making her out to be Malificent LOL give me a break.

    • Lilyboxer says

      Thank you. It’s almost as if they’re not adults capable of making their own decisions.
      It’s not as if he’ll ever inherit the throne so they can be royal without any of the weight of expectation.
      Traditionally, this has been a difficult role.
      Evidence: Prince Albert Victor, Duke of Windsor, Princess Margaret, Prince Andrew & now Harry.

    • charlene2345 says

      I have read several times that Harry is not particularly bright and is a follower, not a leader. It wouldn’t be very hard for him to be manipulated by someone.

  20. charlene2345 says

    Meghan Markle, Harry, and Princess Diana.

    I’ve always heard William was the smart one and Harry not so much, but come on, how can anyone be so completely daft to fall for such brainwashing??? I’m so tired of those two that I just canceled a twenty year long subscription to People Magazine, because they would not stop plastering Meghan’s face on the cover every other week. Enough already- either grow up and accept the life you chose, or go away quietly! You can’t have both.

  21. prisioux says

    I learned long time ago that, sometimes , how people perceives your actions is influenced by whether they like you pra not.
    Meghan and Harry are a case in point

    Nothing that was describded in the blind is bad- If you like the person. If you do, you would think that a woman telling her boufriend that IS Fine to speak about feelings is positive…

  22. marykatez says

    Anyone who’s commenting and saying MM means well is either paid for by her team or has never been in an abusive relationship. I went through three years of intensive therapy to heal from exactly what she is putting Harry through. Being in an abusive relationship with an NPD/psychopath is beyond horrible. The manipulation, the gaslighting, the lies, the emotional abuse, cutting you off from everyone who loves you, etc. The only positive is I lost about 18 pounds in 8 weeks due to this illness.

    • montrealaise says

      The fact that she has alienated him from his entire family – particularly his brother and sister-in-law, whom he was close to – is very troubling. People who have their spouse’s best interests at heart don’t do that.

  23. GoldenBubble says

    Eventually Harry is going to become miserable with this situation. He will turn away from his family and stand my Meghan though because in his mind she IS Diana. And she’s is doing all the same things Diana did to solidify that in his mind. They will leave England. I have no doubt.

  28. lajoe4 says

    I’m a bit confused..is it wrong for her to advice hin to do these things? I mean It’s.true the way his mother was treated and why should he allow his life to be controlled by the family..I really don’t understand all the meagan markle hate. I mean I was never a fan but I certainly don’t feel like she is deserving of all this hate.

    • charlene2345 says

      Okay, but let’s play devil’s advocate here for a moment. They don’t like being “under control” of the RF…. yet they are perfectly happy utilizing all of the resources the RF has to offer, are they not???

  32. aaaSoma says

    Meghan and Harry
    Someone is getting ready to leave….either both, or just her…
    6 weeks in the states is plenty o time to arrange business meetings and prepare the ground for what’s coming next.
    Be careful Meghan, the BRF Will go to great lengths to protect the status quo.

  36. elphie says

    Harry and Meghan Markle
    Although maybe actually talking about his feelings will help some other people get help for mental issues. But I’m sure NONE of the royal family is happy about his speaking out

  37. ana2805 says

    Couple: Henry and meghan , duke n duchess of sussex

    His Mother: Princess Diana

    [Optional] Do you think his mother would have approved of her? Why or why not?
    No way her mother would approve her for so many reasons

  39. luvprue1 says

    Couple: Megan Markles, and Prince Harry
    His mother: Princess Diana

    Optional: Yes,and no. His mother would love her because he loves her. However she would not approve of her coming between him ,and his brother.

  40. ladycaro says

    I think she would want Harry and Meghan to step back to allow William and Catherine to step forward into their roles, not to compete with them and to use pr to disrupt and to overshadow them by being more popular. She did recognize and respect the structure of the royal family, and she knew what the role of each of her sons was when they grew up. She wanted her boys to have each other through their crazy fishbowl lives, and right now they don’t. Diana wouldn’t approve.

  44. ladycaro says

    Prince Harry and Meghan Markle.
    His mother would not have approved. Harry said they would have been best of friends. But Diana wouldn’t have tolerated somebody stealing the limelight from her. Meghan’s goal seems to be creating chaos in order to maximize the amount of attention she is paid, and she appears to gloat about her new life and bask in the attention. I don’t think Diana would have liked those traits. And I think she wouldn’t want Harry’s actions threatening William’s future as king.

  45. Jthenurse says

    Mom: Princess Diana
    Son: Prince Harry
    Wife: Meghan, Duchess of Destruction
    There apparently is no level to which Meghan Markle won’t stoop. The thing is, while she’s methodically separating Harry (and his huge wallet) from his family, he appears to be in the midst of an escalating mental health crisis in every sense of the word. He certainly has sustained trauma related to his dear mother’s death. The outcome cannot be good. It’s said William fears for him. He’s right.

  46. melzbelz says

    Couple: Harry and Rachael Meagain

    His Mother: Diana

    [Optional] Do you think his mother would have approved of her? Why or why not?

    Yes and no. Diana loved to play her own games with the media. But she was a loving mother and very close to her boys so I think she’d have protected Harry from Meagain. Diana with personal experience, would’ve seen Megan coming a mile away and shooed her off.

  52. Bella Ciao Ciao says

    Oh my God, Markle playing again Diana card. Thats horrible. I feel for Harry’s safety and well being. Clearly he’s not in a good place mentaly. She adds gas to the fire. That is so wrong on so meny levels, using childhood trauma for personal gain. Single handedly destroying monarchy, well done

  54. rebeccadewinter says

    Meghan and Harry
    Diana

    That sounds very manipulative, don’t like to think that’s true. Also it will probably not end well if it is. A few years ago he was clearly very close to his dad and brother and sister in law and was finding a new direction after leaving the army (which also helped him a lot). I hope he is happy now with his son.

  55. BooStrawberry says

    Couple: Harry and Meghan – they are both so fake and ridiculous.

    Time for queen to pull a Sweden and strip non essential royals of titles and stipends, starting w sussexes and Andrew!

  57. blubelle says

    Harry. His mother was troubled and unstable. Markle appears to be manipulating Harry, but who knows what’s really going on behind closed doors. I feel bad for the Queen.

  58. yaddayadda says

    Harry, Megs, and Lady Di.

    He probably is a wounded little boy in some ways. That’s a horrible thing that happened. I’m not sure if Diana would have approved of Megs, but I think she would have approved of the way Harry has defended her. I think she would be proud of him.

  61. Shananigans says

    I’m going to take a wild guess and say Megan and Harry?
    And actually I think Diana would approve…

  62. GooglyMoogly says

    Meghan and Harry

    Princess Diana

    I think shed support Harry, and maybe at first she’d approve, but I think she’d see through Meghan…perhaps she would have steered Harry away from her early on. Diana learned a LOT in that family and she played the game well.

  64. Kels2870 says

    Oh Meghan, Meghan, Meghan. She’s a manipulative one, isn’t she?

    No, I don’t think Princess Diana would’ve approved of Prince Harry marrying Meghan. I think Princess Diana would’ve sensed Meghan coming in between William and Harry’s relationship, and she never would have stood for that. Plus, I think that Diana’s motherly intuition would’ve picked up on Ms. Markle’s raging narcissism before Meghan had the chance to manipulate Harry the way that she has.

  65. itismc says

    Meghan Markle ….find her unappealing and with an ambitious agenda. Over her …bored
    Lovely (and as Elton John says lovingly, quite naughty) Princess Diana.

  67. Searlait says

    Couple: Harry & Markle
    His Mother: Diana
    [Optional]:
    No, I do not think his mother would have approved of her. IMO…She would have wanted her boys to be close. She wouldn’t have wanted someone to use her son for status & money or to manipulate him for her own purposes. That’s not a healthy form of love. She herself longed for real love & would have wanted it for her sons. Markle is also causing Diana’s other son Will pain and hurt by manipulating & using Harry & coming between the…

  68. DrDeezer says

    Harry and Meghan

    Diana

    She would not have approved. As troubled as Diana was at times, she was pretty intuitive about other people

  70. KlaireBear says

    The Duke and duchess of Sussex… Prince Harry and Meghan. While I did meet princess Diana once, (when I was a little girl I handed her flowers!) I did not know her, so how could I know if she would approve?

  72. Sackem says

    I thought the constant hand on the back was weird. Meghan is clearly the dominant force in Sussex dynamic.

  74. pharmchick says

    Megan markle and prince harry- and obv Princess Di.
    I am sure princess Diana wouldve wanted her sons to be happy with their spouses, but I also believe if she was alive, Harry wouldve been more adjusted and likely ended up with someone else.
    Honestly I just feel bad for him since he seems genuine and Megan always looks like she has an ulterior motive to accomplish.

  75. annabelle77 says

    Oh, boy. Meghan and Harry. Her fingerprints are all over recent events. The Royal family probably wants to do an intervention, but has no clue how it should be done. You’re going to need a wooden stake to get rid of her.

    • annabelle77 says

      I also think Diana would have had her number right away. Diana was manipulative in her own way, but she was , I think, a much nicer person. It’s too bad Harry has no one he’ll listen to on this one.

  77. BobNYC says

    The Despicable Manipulative Meghan Sparkle. She has her thighs so wrapped around him he can’t even breathe. Control freak.

  82. charity60 says

    Harry and Meghan
    Mom – Princess Di
    If Princess Diana were alive I don’t think she would approve.

  83. toronto says

    Couple: Prince Harry and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex
    His Mother: Diana, Princess of Wales
    [Optional]: Would H even be with MM if his mom was alive? In the slight chance he would, I do not think Diana would have approved. Kate and Di would have gotten along swimmingly but Meghan is too narcissistic. Diana, as wonderful as she was, clearly had her own personality disorder/issues. It would have been such a mess.

  84. TeacherKat says

    Meghan and Harry
    Diana
    Optional: nope. Diana would not want Harry and William to be estranged. Diana would also not approve of a fake, disengenuous wife for Harry.

  85. aaaKTDUB says

    Obviously Meghan and Harry. Just a thought: She’s right, we all thought the same thing at the time.

  86. J. Alice says

    I totally get why she had to go overseas to become the A-lister she has always wanted to be. No here ever would have fallen for her obvious fakery. Any A list actor would have seen through her in a month and showed her directly out the door. She’s a terrible actress.

  88. stickaforkinit says

    Markle and Harry. It is so evident how she has driven a wedge between him and his close family, meanwhile her family is smoke and ashes where she burned them and their bridges without batting an eye.

    • iknewit says

      She preyed on his deepest pain and exploited it for her own gain. She’s not cunning, she’s downright evil.

    • WhySway says

      I don’t see how its cunning. There is nothing normal about the RF. The loss of a mother for any child that young is traumatic, but being forced to publicly swollow grief for ” duty” is
      can be life alteringly damaging. Did they ever get real help or just encourged to get on with it. He probably has PTSD and this difficulty with a new wife/son is bringing very real & unresolved issues into the forefront. Protecting “The Firm” at all cost should not come at the cost of the well being…

  95. Baileygirl says

    Harry and Meghan
    Princess Diana
    No, I don’t think Princess Diana would have approved of her. She was fooled once by Camilla even though she had a gut feeling that things were not right in her marriage due to the interloping of Camilla and the willing participation of Charles in committing adultery.
    I think by this stage that Diana would have super keen radar and would have dug up the dirt on Meghan because Diana was very protective of her sons.

  96. Honey16 says

    Prince Harry & Meghan Markle

    Princess Diana

    I think his mom would have approved in the beginning, but slowly over time she probably would have changed her mind. Meghan saw a weakness in Harry & pounced. She is putting her acting skills to good use. The royal family should just give it time & pray Harry sees the light soon.

  98. emmasyd says

    Harry and meghan

    Maybe she isnt cunning and just loves him and wants him to stop hiding his feelings because its not healthy.

    • extra paws says

      I agree. Maybe she loves him, wants to share his grief, and help him deal with what happened. The Royals were wrong to put a stoic Harry on display. Understanding what someone has gone through is healthy. I’ve just begun a relationship with someone I knew from high school, whose wife of 41 years died last year, and to not address and appreciate his feelings would be cruel. A relationship has to be a safe place to share the most horrible moments in your life as well as the fantastic moments.

    • aaaSeeK says

      Encouraging someone to break entirely away from their family and rely only on that one person isn’t healthy either. And “hiding his feelings” in public (though not in private) is EXACTLY how grown adults function in real life.

  102. Roryss says

    Poor ginger prince and his attention-seeking, drama wife. I was in a relationship like this years ago and it gave me serious depression. She’s hurting his relations with others to further and easier manipulate him because she doesn’t care about his well-being at all, she truly cares only about her image and fame. His mental state will be tragic soon. His mother would not approve.

  104. Kerzep says

    Meghan & Harry

    Princess Diana

    No, I think Diana was a good judge of character and would have picked up on Meghan’s manipulative ways long before a wedding took place.

  105. whatisleft says

    I don’t believe this as some kind of dastardly plot. Plus, it sounds like commonsense to me. M&H

  106. jadedone23 says

    Harry and Megs.

    I’m not sure if Diana would approve. I think she’d like that Megs is her own person and won’t back down, but I don’t think she’d like how manipulative she is with Harry.

  108. floridamonos says

    Harry and Meghan Markle
    Princess Diana
    I don’t think she would have approved of her; she is a horrible human being . she manipulated him to get what she wants . This makes me so sad.

  109. kellyp says

    Meaghan Markle and Prince Harry. Mom Princess Diana. I don’t think she would approve. Both of them need to shut up put their heads down and do their work.

  110. spookie says

    Harry & Meghan
    Princess Diana

    I honestly don’t think this is manipulation. The Royal Family are the epitome of British stiff upper lip, let’s not talk about our issues. Even my own family on the upper-middle side are the same, feelings and especially those words “mental health” are a taboo topic. Coming from an American family where things are more open , I can understand Meghan encouraging Harry to connect with his feelings in order to move past them. We’re all learning to do the same.

  111. judylouise says

    Markle and Harry, but I have to say, what she said is true. But I don’t know if she means it or it is a control tactic

  112. MaryQuiteContrary says

    Harry and Meghan
    Diana

    I think Diana would have welcomed her but she also would have warned Harry about being manipulated like this. Diana was a pretty smart cookie.

  113. pigerella says

    Meghan & Harry
    Princess Diana

    Optional: I think if his mother would have been here, perhaps the course of his entire adulthood would have been different (partying, etc). But who’s to say?

  114. Zafona says

    Oh no, it’s the Markels again. She’s a classic case of NPD, has all traits of a female covert narcissist. This behavior of love bombing and isolating him from his family (“us against the evil world”) is totally in line with NPD too. She’s making him codependent while playing a victim. His mother wouldn’t like this obviously and would intervene because it’s harmful to her son and can end badly for him.

  115. ElisabethR says

    Meghan Markle & Prince Harry of course

    Mother: Diana

    I don’t think he would have fallen for Meghan if Diana was still alive. The pain of losing her has seriously impacted his judgement (Saw their recent interview. How could Meghan possibly not know about the tabloid press in the UK? Not buying it. She’s just upset she’s not getting all the adoration she expected)

  116. kittymyers says

    Harry & Meghan

    Princess Di

    Do you think his mother would have approved of her? Why or why not? No, I don’t think Princess Di would have approved of Meghan. Di would have been horrified by a rift between Harry & Wills and a rift from the rest of his family.

    • TruePatriot says

      Oh, and Diana, whom I shared a 1 July birthday, would NOT be happy. I believe she’d ‘tolerate’ his marriage for the sake of *his* happiness, but she’s never really like or approve of *.
      However, she’d adore Kate. It’s how, as a Cancer Mom, I would treat the situation.

  119. aaaXoXo says

    Prince Harry and (Rachel) Megan Markle.
    The poor man has been taken for a ride, shame on her using his grief like that! I think his mum would approve of who he’s become but probably have seen right through her act

  120. boyjack4 says

    Harry and Sparkle
    Princess Diana
    It’s very obvious to see and so sad he’s now at pits with his brother.

  121. cheekymonkey69 says

    Meaghan and Harry.
    Princess Diana.
    this is a sensitive topic in my opinion. Losing a parent as a young child especially on the world stage is a traumatic experience that clearly has had long lasting effects – buried emotions tend to surface in adulthood and I’m glad Harry found someone he can open up to is helping him feel comfortable recognizing and expressing his feelings.

  123. urgh...gross says

    He has married his mother! Dianna was borderline personality allegedly and I think it’s safe to say Megan is a narcissist.

  124. miss_tj says

    Couple: Harry & Meghan

    His Mother: Diana, Princess of Wales

    [Optional] To be honest, I’m not sure Diana would have approved of MM. Diana was one for the spotlight and positioned herself as the “People’s Princess/Queen of Hearts”. She was also a very insecure person. She would not have liked what she would have seen as competition.

  126. Soprettytome says

    I was waiting this blind after watching parts of Meghan/Harry’s *show.

    Couple: Prince Harry/ Meghan Markle
    His mother: Princess Diana

    Optional: I doubt any parent would approve a significant other that manipulates and alienates their kid.

    What a sad situation for him.

  129. chandler02 says

    Obviously this is supposed to be Meghan Markle and Harry…but it sounds so petty. Talking to your spouse about their dead mother and how it impacted their life isn’t a sketchy tactic. It is what kind people do.

  130. TeaDrinker says

    Prince Harry and Meghan Markle

    Optional: Nope. I don’t think Meghan would have made it past a 2nd date with Harry had Princess Diana still been alive.

  132. loopylou600 says

    The Sussex’s
    Princess Diana

    I could plainly see what was happening, and how she was using him and playing on his Mother’s death to manipulate him and turn him against his family. She’s a vampire, she sucks the life out of people who she sees as weak. His Mother I hope would have seen through her, I like to think she would have never approved of a such a fast tracked marriage. However, if Diana was still alive, Meghan would have had much less power and weaponry to use on Harry etc.

  133. aaaEmme says

    Couple: Prince Harry and Meghan Markle

    His Mother: Princess Diana

    [Optional] Do you think his mother would have approved of her? No, not one bit.
    Why or why not? Because Diana was very smart and very savvy. I don’t think she would have been fooled for one minute by this girl. Poor Harry. I think he truly is lost, and she is fully exploiting every moment she has with him. I hope his family can get to him before it’s too late.

  135. theotherwoman says

    Dear God. Meghan and Harry.
    I think Diana is way more classy and timeless than Meghan could ever be. Who knows if she would approve.

  137. ProfessorPep11 says

    Meghan Markle and Prince Harry.

    Princess Diana

    Diana wouldn’t have to approve because if she were still alive, Harry never would have married Meghan. There wouldn’t have been any vulnerabilities for her to exploit.

  138. The Big D says

    Megain and Harry
    The late Princess Diana
    Would Diana approve of her? No way in heck would she have approved of this manipulative witch but then again if Diana had not died when Harry was so young he probably would not have chosen Megain.

  140. Theaterfan says

    Harry and Meghan.

    And, no, I don’t think Diana would have approved of the conniving social climber.

  142. carriebradshaw says

    Harry & Meghan

    Mother: Lady Diana Spencer

    Optional: don’t think she would want her children opening to the media in this way. She would like to see them in happy, private relationships. She did her teary interviews because of her unhappy marriage. Harry has no reason at all. If he hates public so much, he should quit.

  145. allegoriedesoie says

    Couple: Meghan Markle & Prince Harry
    His Mother: Princess Diana

    [Optional]: I don’t know if Princess Dee would’ve approved. I’m sure if she hadn’t died, Harry would’ve been a different person…and maybe not so vulnerable to a manipulative woman like MM.

  146. Jeanesgenes says

    Harry Windsor
    Meghan Markle

    I think Princess Diana would have snatched her bald by now for the behaviour she has exhibited. Harry needs a good therapist and MM needs to shut the hell up.

  147. HalfBloodPrincess says

    This is obviously Meghan Markle and Prince Harry.

    I have been saying all along that Meghan is no victim, she can play the victim like the ACTRESS she is to manipulate the story. Meghan was deliberate about pursuing Harry and while I do believe he loves her very much, I also think he should have heeded his brother and family’s warnings about marrying her. She pretends to be naieve and not understand what tabloids are?! Huh?! She is VERY DELIBERATE and MANIPULATIVE. Harry is a fool to fall…

  148. nowyoutellme says

    Meghan and Harry wrt Diana. Meghan’s 100% correct. I think Diana, as the victim of a miserable marriage, would have loved any woman who made her boys happy.

  149. badgerette85 says

    Prince Harry (Markle)
    and his mum Princess Di.
    Op- if he was marrying for real love and it was given in return, then yes. It’s Seems evident that MM has always had ulterior motives.

  150. Incarnadine says

    Meghan and Harry. Diana was mum.

    I don’t think Meghan is entirely in the wrong about this. She’s allowing him to express his feelings. Remember seeing those images of him walking behind his mums coffin? Not even crying.

    He has his own independent thoughts. He’s a big boy elephant needs to make the best decisions for himself and his wife and child.

    • extra paws says

      I thought you were making a reference to the ‘elephant in the room’, i.e., Diana’s death and Harry walking stoically behind her body.

      On the other hand, autocorrecting something to ‘elephant’ is pretty funny.

  151. hunkydory says

    Harry and Meghan
    Royal family is the real mess. Stiff upper lip and burying feelings not healthy. I don’t think this is so cunning. Sounds like she got something from her own therapy.

    • rosie21 says

      Your last comment is potentially true, but you never ever air your family’s dirty laundry in public, as a mark of respect, be you royal or not. Diana did do this and she was known to manipulate the press.

      Unfortunately for the sussexes their pr is clunky and also US. I think, overall, the uk is much more cynical and are a bit sick of the smoke and mirrors. Blah is attributed to MM because this wasn’t seen until her arrival. PH, was our favourite royal and yet in18 months there has…

  153. SayItAintSo says

    Harry and Megan and Princess Diana
    His mother would be sad she has caused a rift between the brothers.

  154. JoshuaTree says

    Meghan Markle manipulating Prince Harry. The way he constantly goes on about his mother you’d think it happened last year, not 22 years ago. She died because of a drunk chauffeur and not wearing a seatbelt, but Harry’s now claiming the press killed her.

  155. wareagle says

    Meghan and Harry. She’s not wrong :/ The Royal Family treated Diana like trash when she was a lovely and kind woman (my mom played tennis with her sister and met Diana several times. She said she was incredibly sweet and genuinely nice). Harry is old enough to think for himself and he’s not a stupid man. He doesn’t have anything to lose, as he won’t be king. I bet Diana would love Meghan, if she does in fact have Harry’s best interest in mind.

  156. sunshine702 says

    Megan Markle and Harry Windsor

    Diana Spensor Windsor

    I think Diana would approve but would suggest Harry be more cunning. This outpouring is only hurting him. He needs to abdicate and grieve in private with his wife. As a Royal figurehead it is bad English manners to act this way in public.

  160. cawatt says

    Meghan and Harry.
    I just can’t warm to her, she’s making a fool of him and he won’t see it until it’s too late.

  161. surfsunsand05 says

    Couple: The insufferable Prince Harry & vile Meghan Markle

    His Mother: Diana, Princess of Wales

    [Optional] Do you think his mother would have approved of her? Why or why not? Please use people’s real names. No. Diana knew how to manipulate the media when it suited her – I think she would’ve recognized and see through Meghan immediately.

    • EllaKos says

      Now Will’s has expressed concern for fragile brother Megan will be keen ppint out H it’s a sign of strength to be true to feelings. However wrong time Wrong place!! As a tax payer + humanitarian , re; African royal tour of dutyHarry+Megan so selfish, ungrateful and frankly extremely DISTASTEFUL to focus on SELF with all their riches and means of disposal, And NOT poverty, inequality and mental challenges people daily struggle with on

  163. ILUVCA4evr says

    Prince ‘Woe is Me’ Harry and ‘Times almost up’ Megan Markle

    Diana would definitely NOT approved. Above all, she was in support of the monarchy and knew that Wills would be King one day. However, that being said, she would’ve been a ‘dragon Mom’ to anyone hurting her children..and Megan is hurting both H and W here.

    I laughed in my sleeve at her attempt at innocence. H looks on the verge of a mental breakdown. Honestly, he needs their mental health charity more than anyone.

  165. beachchick218 says

    Princess Diana would NOT have approved of this scheming trollop. She is the worst thing to happen to the Royal family in ages.

  167. WhatNowDems says

    Meghan and Harry

    It’s been obvious from the beginning that she has been mothering him, and feminizing him. I don’t see this ending well.
    I believe he wouldn’t have been vulnerable had Diana not died, so the optional question is kind of moot. However, since it’s asked, Meghan wouldn’t have ever had the courage to pull this had Diana been here. Sad situation, all the way around.

    • OhYeah says

      I don’t think she’s “feminizing” him (which shouldn’t be considered an insult, BTW). Rather, she’s infantilizing him – treating him like a baby/small child and she’s the mother with all the power to comfort him and control his life. (i.e., calling him a “wounded child”)

    • mybellyistoofulltothink says

      spot on! INFANTILIZING is the word for this situation. He always looks uncomfortable now in public and wait for her to make the next move. I couldn’t think of the word until I read your post haha “wounded child”. Man I feel bad for anyone foolish enough to fall for her act.

  168. kimmukwest says

    Harry and Meghan
    Princess Di
    I don’t think Diana would have approved. She’s a shameless social climber

    • Beachbum says

      Optional: I don’t think Diana would have approved. I think she became very good at reading people. She certainly wouldn’t have approved of how fast it all moved. But who knows? If Diana hadn’t died, Harry would have been a different person.

  170. zappy2050 says

    I lost my mother at a young age, so I know what it is like. You are vulnerable almost for the rest of your life. I feel bad for him. If I was him, I would walk away from royal duties and try to create a path that honors my mother. Life does not have to be perfect to be happy. I am not saying Meghan is good for him, I am saying that she is probably what he needs to survive emotionally. Just a sad situation all around.

  171. aaaAbbey says

    This is Prince Harry and Meghan. If this is true, she is a horribly manipulative for own her gain.
    It broke my heart watching Harry walk behind his Mother’s coffin. He was at a such tender age.
    Harry needs to understand his grief is normal; painful as it is.
    However, he a man now, with a family, as well as extended family that he has responsibilities that he was born into.

  172. alinaa says

    Meghan and Harry

    Diana

    She’s got him wrapped around her finger and the entire family apart from him knows it

  173. Wallcat says

    Couple: Harry and Meghan
    His Mother: Princess Diana

    Do you think his mother would have approved of her? Why or why not? I think Diana would be more encouraging than the Royal family to be open and vulnerable, Diana was also very sensitive and caring. Meghan doesn’t give that vibe – she gives an attention seeking / victim vibe.

    • fiddlesticks says

      yes, that’s exactly it. MM inserts herself into the public gaze and inflicts her opinions on that same public without caring a jot about them. Plus he’s been quite ruthless with family and friends as she’s clawed her way up. I don’t see her show one ounce of caring or compassion for anyone, any creature, any cause without her gaining something from it.

  174. SouthJerseyGirl says

    Meghan and Harry.

    I hope Diana would have liked her. She is his wife and it’s terrible if your mother-in-law isn’t on board.

    • polina says

      I don’t think she would have liked the woman who has brought her son to his knees through mental games and manipulation. I don’t think she would have liked the woman who is separating her son from all the rest of his family and causing him to make a fool of himself for all the world to see.

    • ChattyCat says

      I think Diana and Meghan would become great friends. After all her son loved her enough to marry her and chose her to be the mother of his children. I don’t like the outdated monarchy system BUT I believe people should keep out of other’s marriages. Harry chose her as his wife. It’s no one elses business (beyond his immediate family).

  176. ChezKK says

    She sounds super manipulative. Ms. Markle is brainwashing the prince to lock him in and make him codependent. Gross.

  177. Gerseychick says

    Rachel Meghan Markle……She played with Prince Harry’s emotions from day one…The Ruthless, Calculating Grifter has been around the block a zillion times…Knew how to play him with talking about his Beloved Mother Princess Diana…Before the wedding she did and said everything the Palace wanted to hear..After the wedding as the Wife she call all the shots…Palace and PR nightmare…Nobody in the Royal Family likes her.. She causes complete turmoil wherever she goes….

    • winteriscoming says

      100%!! She is a user and Harry is stupid enough to let her! She is going to use those kids to keep Harry in line and to further his breach with his brother. She will not be happy until they live in Hollywood…. she and her broken prince, Until he mans up and becomes the man his mom would of wanted.

    • Acheronbeach says

      I think Diana and Meghan would’ve hated each other. Diana was beautiful and caring but severely mentally ill and used media attention to help her low self esteem. Diana also focused her charity work on people who seemed ugly, poor and sick. Meghan also seems to court media attention. Her public work focuses a lot on businesses who have charity components and celebs.

      I don’t think Diana would have liked sharing the spotlight. I don’t think she would’ve liked M’s approach to…

  178. rayodeplata says

    The Markles
    Diana Spencer

    Maybe Diana would have approved Meghan, but she’d never let William and Harry grow apart.

  180. ghostrider44 says

    Harry and Meghan. They have made a terrible mistake with their documentary. It was tone deaf to complain about their life in a country where the struggle to actually “survive” is real. The PR team that is advising them needs to be fired. They are turning people against them. Harry needs to sort out his feelings about his mother’s death in private, with a professional. All their speeches involve them talking about themselves and not focused on the cause at hand.

    • Alexis_Rose says

      Harry is damaged due to his mother’s death & Markles capitalized on it. Does anyone think she dumped her dad so she’d have something in common w Harry … as in they both lost a parent? I think if Diana lived, Harry would have married someone entirely different. I have no issue w Markles getting him to talk about his loss w her, but it doesn’t need to be shared w the world & she shouldn’t drive a wedge between him & his brother/family. No reason for that except control & manipulation.

    • Beachbum says

      I agree completely. They were foolish to use a PR firm from the US that doesn’t understand British culture. I don’t doubt that Harry has issues; if so , he needs a professional to counsel him, not his wife. Diana would be heartbroken to see her boys at odds.

  184. NativeAtlantaGirl says

    Meg and Harry… she has him so whipped – and it is amazing she has manipulated him so much. Is he really THAT daft?

  185. FiyahHotFlashy says

    Couple: Duke and Duchess of Sussex

    [Optional] Do you think his mother would have approved of her? Why or why not? Princess Di would have reservations about her. She would’ve spoke her mind and probably told her the REAL DEAL about being a royal. Honestly I think she would “sweetly” scare the couple.

    • ChattyCat says

      What do you mean by *real deal* (about the monarchy)? Diana was considered a misfit by the royal family because she wouldn’t conform to their antiquated sexist ways. I think the problem with Meghan *and any thinking woman of today* is that the monarchy world is stuck in the 17th century. I think this is what Meghan was eluding to in the recent interview when she expressed being naive about the world she was stepping into. Regardless of popular opinion I like her.

  186. Sleepyandconfused says

    Obviously Markle and Harry

    She’s controlling. She wants his and most of all his money all to herself. And she wants him to leave U.K. and shine somewhere in Hollywood. No responsibilities just privileges.

    • ItsBouquet says

      Xela we must have different definitions of “strong.” True strength is taking the higher road even if you badly want to bite back. I see her as always biting back through “anonymous friends,” a televised interview, and now a lawsuit. The Cambridges have demonstrated true strength. They kept their dignified silence, through years of criticism. Not that it’ss right to constantly face criticism, but the two different reactions between the Cambridges and Sussex’s show which pair is really…

    • Sleepyandconfused says

      Xela, in my opinion if he doesn’t want to take the royal responsibilities he should be stripped of his title (along with his wife) and only use the inheritance money.
      Move away from the royal properties (paid by tax payers) and live his life not on tax payers tab.
      After that, he can do what he wants.
      But they both use their royal privileges, use the tax payers money, while not following the royal rules, and they keep complaining that they are the victims?!
      I have no sympathy for them

    • Acheronbeach says

      Xela, if he’s truly struggling and wounded, alienating his family and playing his struggles out on a public stage can’t be helpful or healing. It’s actually really concerning and demonstrates that her need for attention outweighs her husband’s mental health needs.

      Harry and Meghan absolutely could renounce public royal life of he wanted or needed to. It’s been done before. He could focus on his own health in relative privacy and wealth. But they don’t. It’s worrying.

  187. willowtree says

    Gosh, obviously Meghan and Harry. How very manipulative of her. I guess that’s what we ought to expect, but I wonder where this came from? To be fair, I had a boyfriend like this, I think it’s “gaslighting”, so no, it’s not kind at all.
    As an aside, the stills from the documentary with Tom Bradbury make her look like she is completely acting the wounded soldier.

    • QubbuQ says

      Actually she’s quite right. Talking helps. Have to deal with the feelings. He lost his mom at an early age and was made to be stoic about it and keep in line with the family for the royal image. Maybe it doesn’t suit him. From all we’ve seen of him and his antics that seems true. They Were terrible to his mother. Tis smart to keep that in mind. Forgive, but don’t forget. I also don’t buy that she’s some manipulating him to that degree. She’s more likely emboldening him to be himself.

    • 8outof11 says

      I don’t think a thirtysomething-year-old man can be completely manipulated by a woman. I think he is feeling some of the legacy of his mother. It’s obvious he’s in pain as he said he has flashbacks since childhood. I think the new Harry is more mature and it’s nice to know that he’s human. If that’s called gaslighting and manipulation then I guess I am supportive of this new hairy.

    • DrDeezer says

      Willowtree, agree with you 100%. This is indeed a manipulation and the first thing a master manipulator will do is cut you off from everyone you’ve known and loved so that the manipulator can be the central focus of your life. This is not about fulfilling Diana’s legacy

    • SecretBountyHunter says

      I agree that Harry is emboldened now. I think Diana sent her from up above to rattle the Royal Family a bit; and for that reason, Diana would LOVE MEGHAN. Classy, Smart, Beautiful, Friendly, and loves giving back and reminds the world of the power of diversity – which only strengthens her message to multiple audiences. You couldn’t get a better ambassador. A terrific addition to the family. If only there wasn’t jealousy from that sister-in-law..

    • willowtree says

      It’s interesting to read BG’s take on MM, she definitely is very divisive. I never thought I’d be first as these blinds aren’t usually listed as “solved”

    • ItsBouquet says

      Willowtree, I agree. I was surprised to see it as solved. I don’t think Meghan is divisive, I think the great majority see right through her including her own brother-in-law.
      At this point, because they have child together, I’m hoping she calms down and out of the spotlight, rather than get divorced.

    • zappy2050 says

      The problem is that Meghan is being selfish and has an agenda – instead of genuinely trying to help Harry. Helping Harry would include laying low and trying to get along. Instead she is trying to seem revolutionary. My prediction is they will get rid of her. I have my own ideas of how they will get rid of her, but I won’t say it on this site. I am sure there are plans underway as I type to get rid of her.

    • High Steppa says

      All I can say is that this would break Diana’s heart to see the schism that has developed between her sons. Meghan may be right about talking about your feelings but I have an awful feeling that she has an agenda to benefit herself.

    • Alexis_Rose says

      We had this happen in our family where someone swooped in on our daughter at a vulnerable time & slowly but surely began isolating her from family & friends. It took a number of years, but finally the spell was broken & the relationship ended. My daughter looks back on that time & says about herself, “I don’t know who that person was.” It’s very scary for the family & it’s a very real thing that happens.