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witch-1[Blind Gossip] We have some fascinating insight as to what is going on behind the scenes of this fractured friendship!

This blonde singer is getting blasted for not visiting this brunette singer in rehab.

Fans of the brunette are acting like the brunette is laid up with terminal cancer and the blonde singer is some selfish, heartless witch giving her the middle finger.

What fans are completely missing is this: If the brunette’s problem actually was something like an illness, it would be GOOD for the blonde singer to publicly express compassion and support!

The fact that the blonde is NOT doing so confirms what we have been telling you all along: The spin about the rehab stay being about chronic illness and anxiety is bull! The truth is that it’s about hard drugs and alcohol.

[The blonde] feels a little betrayed. [The brunette] kept telling her that she was clean and that she had stopped doing [drugs]. So [the blonde] felt it was safe to hang out with her. It turns out that [the brunette] was lying.

Now that she knows the truth, the blonde singer has to be SMART. Her brand has never included hard drugs or alcohol addiction or rehab. Until the brunette is clean, the blonde will keep some distance.

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Blonde Singer:

Brunette Singer:

[Optional] Do you think the blonde singer is doing the right thing?

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    • jonty30 says

      Drug addicts cannot be trusted. Their drugs have changes them so their world revolves around drugs.

    • MademoiselleRose says

      I agree. I don’t like Swift, but if Gomez lies it’s a betrayal on a friendship/trust level and Swift has her livelihood/image to protect, which she’s having enough trouble with at the moment, so I totally understand her position. Swift has always been upfront about being anti-drugs, Gomez knows that, it’s common knowledge, and it seems Swift has been supportive of Gomez in the past, but maybe she’s over it now if her friend lies. Friendships are troublesome with lies, it may not survive.

    • spookie says

      I rarely do, and even though she’s probably just keeping her distance to maintain her (fake) image as someone squeaky clean, I agree that not pandering to the friend is best for everyone.

  5. KellyNotRipa says

    TayTay and Selena

    She has to do what works for her image, that is her business after all. Side note: I’ve had friends who were on and off alcohol/drugs. It got to the point that I could never trust them when they said they were clean. Eventually had to ditch them to be happy with my life.

  6. TeacherKat says

    Taylor and Selena

    Optional: Yes. It might sound cold, but if Selena was lying about being clean, that’s a betrayal of trust. I also get not wanting to be associated with that lifestyle. I did something similar in high school; I stopped hanging out with some friends that I still loved dearly because they got into hard drugs and became untrustworthy. Taylor has a business/brand to keep up that she’s worked hard to make successful. Not worth risking that over drugs and alcohol if you…

  9. melly123 says

    Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez. If this helps Selena’s recovery she is doing the right thing, but if she’s staying away to protect her own image then she’s as bad as I always thought

  11. queenofhearts_11 says

    Blonde: Taylor Swift
    Brunette: Selena Gomez

    She should probably support her “friend” no matter what the circumstances are. But, does Taylor even genuinly care about any of her “friends”?

  14. gossipqueen95 says

    Blonde Singer: T-Swift

    Brunette Singer: Selena Gomez

    [Optional] Do you think the blonde singer is doing the right thing?: I don’t. If Selena and Taylor are as close as the media portrays their friendship, I think having a good friend visit you in your time of need would actually benefit Selena. Also, it would have made Taylor look better after months of having her fake image dragged down by other celebrities, despite the real reasons as to why Selena was in rehab.

  17. Vaunia says

    Taylor Swift.

    Selena Gomez.

    Everyone knows Gomez is using Lupus as a front for her coke and booze abuse. Is Taylor passing judgment by staying away? Very possibly. If so, it’s pretty shameful of TS seeing as Gomez publicly embarrassed herself by reducing Black Lives Matters to “sides” after defending Swift on Twitter.

  18. ohboyohboy says

    Blonde Singer: Tswift
    Brunette: SGomez

    Taylor swift is not a true friend. But in Hollyweird who is? It’s full of fakes, posers and wanna-be cling ons. If Taylor was a true friend to Selena who is struggling, she would support her instead of turning her back from her. Side Note: Selena really really needs serious therapy and to get over the Biebs once and for all. Maybe then she’ll stop self-medicating ?

    • CoCoJoe says

      Nobody is obligated to stick with a druggie. If Taylor is sincerely uncomfortable around drugs, I get it. This is not necessarily Taylor acting fake..

    • itstarapagain says

      Actually in this kind of situation, staying away while they recover is not always cruel. A true friend or loved one would tell the addict that they love the addict too much to enable them to kill themselves with drugs or alcohol . Wish them the best with their sobriety. Then be available IF the person puts together sober time and recognizes that they need to earn trust back from the lies
      That is what is taught in Al Anon

  19. Pambala says

    Taylor Swift

    Selena Gomez

    I don’t think TS ever does the right thing. She’s all about how she looks to the public. Never leave a friend hanging. especially one who is trying to get better.

  23. ashanean says

    Blonde singer of course
    Taylor Swift
    Brunette Selena Gomez
    She’s doing the right thing Selena kied

  24. Squirrelnutkin says

    Taylor and selena.

    Yes, I do think she’s doing the right thing. Part of a brand or no, best not to get caught up at all with alcoholics and drug addicts. I had to enforce strict no contact with my biological father for that reason. Those people are toxic and can’t be trusted, IMO. Sad but true.

  26. SugarCookie says

    Taylor Swift
    Selena Gomez

    Alcoholism and addiction is a disease. People lie about using out of shame, not with the intent to hurt others. Intentions matter. She should visit her friend & be supportive. She is trying to get clean.

  28. jolael says

    Taylor and Selena
    I think she is doing the right thing. How many times is Selena going to be in rehab? Sometimes it’s best to distance yourself from toxic people.

  30. Gemzan says

    Taylor Swift

    Selena Gomez

    Optional: She’s in rehab, so it would seem that Selena is trying to get help. Friends should support each other when they’re down (but asking for help). Taylor could use some ( a lot!) positive press and it would help her image if she’s seen being there for a friend. Staying away makes her look extremely shallow. If Selena relapses, that would be a whole other story.

    • rcaraway says

      This is a relapse. She has been to rehab before. I think it got to the point where Taylor had to take a step back.

    • Gemzan says

      Point taken, and I know it’s a relapse, and maybe I’m way too soft, but I’d still want to encourage my friend while she’s actually in rehab. But everyone has their limit, and maybe Taylor reached hers.

  31. sawyer319 says

    Selina Gomez or whatever her name is being a lying druggy in rehab
    Taylor swift being the one she rudely lied to

  34. twistedme says

    Blonde Singer: Taylor Swift

    Brunette Singer: Selena Gomez

    [Optional] Do you think the blonde singer is doing the right thing? No. Selena publicly defended her after Kim Kardashian exposed her lies about the Kanye song and was blasted about standing up for her. She deserves the support. Maybe a down-low visit or a few kind words on social media would do the thing, IDK.

  40. sublimeLime says

    Taylor Swift
    Select Gomez

    I think they just need to stop calling themselves friends, cause they’re not.

  41. tellmemore says

    Taylor and Selena

    It’s a fine line, I guess, with image control. But it’s better to be/look like a supportive friend, no matter what the real illness is. She could be supportive of her recovery from a distance (i.e., social media).

  44. biancap says

    Blonde Singer: Taylor Snake Swift

    Brunette Singer: Selena Gomez.

    [Optional] Do you think the blonde singer is doing the right thing? No, she isa snake and a fake friend.

  46. spunkie brewster says

    Taylor Swift
    Selena Gomez
    Idk on one hand, Selena lied. On the other, I stand by my friends (unless they purposely hurt someone)

  47. iurimitika says

    Well, rehab these days is obviously Selena. And the blond with the good-girl image is Tay-Tay.

  48. SouthJerseyGirl says

    Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez. Swifty will do what is good for Swifty and if that means she has to keep her distance, she will. The friendship is probably over at this point anyway.

  55. Fatboy says

    Tay-Tay and Selena

    are they really friends or using each other? I think each is so image conscious that they each think they’re doing the right thing

  56. SilentStar says

    Selena and Taylor.
    It’s tough dealing with friends who are addicts. As much as you want to be there to help and support them, it’s exhausting and unfair to have to deal with the dishonesty that often comes with addiction. Maybe staying away from Selena is not just about “brand”. Maybe Taylor’s just had enough and needs some space from a draining relationship. She’s probably smart for doing so.

  61. CyndiTx123 says

    taylor swift and Selena Gomez…..

    I heard that she has sent her well wishes for her to be clean…..

  71. Warrior1461 says

    Taylor Swift
    Selena Gomez

    No, because its this type of treatment that leads people into addictions, the death of Selena’s friend Christina Grimmie helped push her further down this dark path.

  72. rayonlight says

    Selena
    Taylor

    Does Swift have any real relationships? If this is true, it wasn’t a real friendship to begin with, all for publicity on both sides.

  73. CherryBomb27 says

    Assuming blonde singer is Swift?

    No, I don’t think the Blonde Singer is doing the right thing. Addiction is an illness, I have had friends who’ve had addictions in the past and I wouldn’t dream of distancing myself from them, but then I’m not a money hungry selfish ass like Swift

  74. Heathersmist says

    Blonde:Taylor
    Brunette: Selena

    Just had to comment. Guess what, nobody’s perfect. We all have our demons, trust…no matter how good you are, or THINK you are. If you are a true friend, you behave as one, and stick by someone as best you can to help them work it out.
    If this is only in the spotlight to protect her “brand” well fallout be what it may. My only hope is in private she is there for her. Remember, life turns, don’t expect someone you “fair weather” to be there for you…

  78. prinny says

    Taylor Swift, Selena Gomez. Hmm, this answers alot of questions. I always wondered how the two could be besties when Tay Tay is apparently so anti-drug.

    I think Selena needs her friends right now. If she is allowed visitors, there must be some way for Taylor to see her incognito if she wanted to. I agree that is very selfish of her not to be there for a friend in need for the sake of her image. Addicts lie, and Taylor should not take it personally.

  79. goodgollyholly says

    Taylor

    Selena

    Yes — and in rehab I believe only family can visit in a very limited capacity.

  83. Ran Dan says

    Taylor Swift
    Selena Gomez

    I dislike both of them but leaving your friend and not being there for them just because you to save your reputation/image is just ugly and heartless and your definitely not a best friend

  84. whateverwillbe14 says

    This is clearly about Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift. And all it proves is that their friendship is just like other ‘friendships’ in the business; fake and phony. With the image they’ve put out, they are supposed to be there for each other. They are each other’s rock and confidant. If this was a woman I put up as my best friend, I would be there in a heartbeat without guiding even if it was for drugs and alcohol. However, since it’s a fake friendship; brand > humans to Taylor.

  85. ArcticFantasy says

    Agree Selena Gomez and T. Swift. I don’t think she has an obligation to do anything. But addiction really IS an illness and Gomez is trying to get better. She’s right to hide behind an excuse as press scrutiny won’t help. This is why people are turning on T. Swift. She comes off phony and fair weather. If your friend is suffering and your first thought is of your “brand” you have serious issues. People will forgive a lot of genuine people. She should try it.

  86. KCeagle says

    The term “FRENEMIES” certainly comes to mind when Taylor and Selena are the involved parties.

    True friends will always have your back. Fair weather friends care about details and opportunities, and themselves above all. Taylor could be worried about guilt by association. Swift has several “acquaintances” that are no strangers to booze and blow.

  87. Veri2509 says

    She is in rehab. She should stay there and focus on herself. Don’t think there should be visitors in rehab. Not at this early stage. She should stay for about half a year and when she feels confident about herself then she should start interacting with friends again.

  88. dawnk31 says

    What the what? Selena is a in rehab for drugs and alcohol… Yikes! It does seem plausible since she was spending a lot of time with the Biebs who seems completely out of control.

    • Vaunia says

      Selena spent no time with Bieber this year, apart from going to his show in LA in March, which was purely for her image. Selena’s drug habit is HER responsibility, her doing, and hers alone. It’s not healthy to blame others. It hinders recovery.

  89. jersey6332 says

    I like Taylor’s songs but I’m beginning to really dislike her. Selena publicly defended Taylor (Kimye) but when she’s in trouble, where’s taylor? Yes, as a celebrity image is super important but Selena risked her career defending you. Taylor’s image has taken a hit. Breaking up with calvin, breaking up with tom, fighting with katy, suing fans on etsy etc. Taylor’s squad can keep saying how great she is but if anything, these past few years just show she’s not the oh so perfect girl…

  90. judylouise says

    Taylor doesn’t care she’s doing drugs. She cares about how it makes her look. Stop giving her props.

  91. Whispered_Dreams says

    Blonde Singer: T Swift

    Brunette Singer:S Gomez

    [Optional] Do you think the blonde singer is doing the right thing? tricky – first instinct is if your friend needs support you give it, if friend has checked herself into rehab and is committed to it then you should support them through this it’s a big step and there’s enough evidence rehab works in 75% ( give or take) of cases. If you’re a friend you step up. If you know however they’ve no intention of working at it – might think again