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[Blind Gossip] The arrival of a precious new life is always good news. Well, almost always!

For this acting couple, the last pregnancy was a bit stressful. He actually likes being a father… but he doesn’t like what the pregnancy does to his wife’s body.

He’s just not one of those guys who finds pregnant women attractive. Yeah, he’ll fake it for the cameras, but he only likes women who are very slim. She said she’s keeping an eye on him this time around in the last couple months of pregnancy/first couple months after the birth because she is positive that last time he hooked up with some non-pregnant rando.

Similar: Pregnancy Twist

Couple:

[Optional] Do you think it’s OK for a man to express that he’s not attracted to his pregnant partner’s body?

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  2. jophieljo says

    Ryan Reynolds & Blake Lively

    Bonus: It’s fine to be honest about your feelings and what you find attractive but cheating is completely unacceptable. Also, if you only find your wife attractive when she’s perfect and thin I think you can kiss a long term relationship goodbye. You have to be attracted to more than just the exterior. There is an unknown and unseen spark that should be built on because when you age, your looks fade.

  4. lolachristina says

    jared padalecki and genevieve cortese
    optional: nope, it’s a part of life grow up and get over it. pregnancy isn’t supposed to be attractive

  9. KlaireBear says

    Sounds like Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds.

    It’s a pretty crappy situation to be in, for sure. I don’t know what the right thing to do is, lol.

  10. spunkie brewster says

    I hope it’s not Jared & Gen Padelecki.
    That’s super *. It’s life. If you don’t like it, don’t have children. It’s that simple

  11. chicagogirl says

    Mila Kunis, Ashton Kutcher.

    If he is wanting to have these kids also, he needs to just shut up for those months. Pregnancy isn’t a permanent condition. I think pregnant bodies are gross, and it creeps me out that a human is growing inside another human, so I can understand the loss of sexual attraction during that time. But I also think that’s no reason to screw around.

  12. spunkie brewster says

    Maybe Chad Michael Murray and Sarah Roemer. That seems much more likely! He is a douche

  13. Blackorchid85 says

    Blake lively and Ryan Reynolds

    That’s a horrible thing to say! She’s putting her body through this for your child!

  14. deelee says

    My initial thought was Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds, but Ryan was married to Scarlett Johansson before, and neither of those ladies I would describe as “very slim” — “perfect bodies” would be my description, but when I hear “very slim” I think Zoe Saldana…so I’m not sure who this is.

  15. stolidog says

    Thor or Magic Mike?
    No, it’s not ok to express that. It’s ok to internally think it, but it’s way far from ok to hook up with a rando because of it.

  18. bubbasbbq says

    Geeze Louise, that is not just any pregnant woman, so if you aren’t attracted to your basic pregnant woman, fine, but that is your wife and the mother of your child. How can you not?

  20. Cuddlebutt says

    My first thought was Blake and Ryan. But she never was super skinny.
    Guys don’t HAVE to like a pregnant body but they can NOT be critical of it. My husband never criticized my size or shape. Ever. But he did say that he realized why Dr’s made you wait 6 weeks to resume sex and that was to give him time to get over what he saw. I still laugh at that.

  21. craicmehappy says

    Gonna guess Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively.
    Is it ok to not be attracted?

    Well, you can’t help how you feel, but there’s correct etiquette in these situations, especially since she can’t help what happens to her body.

  23. Goodgrief says

    Mila Kunis and Ashton Kutcher. Didn’t he go to a massage parlor? I see nothing wrong with not liking how a pregnant woman looks, even your wife. BUT, that doesn’t give you a free pass to hook up with someone else.

  24. Dancing with Mr D says

    What a shallow *. I wish whomever this is could become pregnant and experience what it’s like.

  26. MrsBreeder says

    Mila and Ashton?

    Uh, no it isn’t OK to say you’re not attracted. She CANNOT help what pregnancy does to her body…and since you helped get her in that situation, shut your mouth and shut your fly.

  27. stillmb says

    You’ve got to be kidding. He can’t keep his pecker in his pants while his wife is carrying his child?? Whatever happened to respect, honor, and just plain decency?

    I don’t know who this is, but he’s an *!

  28. ashanean says

    Couple: Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds
    No it’s not ok. A woman goes through a lot of changes when she’s pregnant and she needs to hear that she’s sexy to her husband.

  30. amagod121 says

    Tori, Tori, Tori! Why are you doing this to yourself? No, I don’t think a partner should denigrate his wife’s body while she’s pregnant. How is she supposed to feel? She has his child inside her! Not cool!

  32. TeacherKat says

    I couldn’t find any clues. Blake and Ryan just had another kiddo, but has the couple in the blind had the kid already or is she still pregnant? Has Mila had her kid? I’ve got nothin’.

    Optional: I mean, people like what they like, but to have an affair because he didn’t like her pregnant body? Disgusting. Shes growing your child, give her a break! I’d like to see him go through a pregnancy and all that it does to you emotionally and physically….

  36. dynamodavid says

    Couple: I want to guess Ashton & Mila but it’s probably not them.

    Do you think it’s OK for a man to express that he’s not attracted to his pregnant partner’s body?
    No. This indicates he is with her for the wrong reason.

  38. KCeagle says

    Megan Fox and Brian Austin Green?

    It is soo improper to criticize your partners pregnant body…knowing that it’s YOUR bun baking in her oven @ 98.6° for approx. 9 mos. It’s brutally honest but ill-advised. What * actually cheats on his pregnant spouse with a random? A total L-O-S-E-R.

  40. devoncarruthers says

    No clue who the couple is but it is never ok to say you’re not attracted to your partner at such an emotional and physically challenging time. Speaking as someone who is 30 weeks pregnant with her second, I know I’m not looking all that great at the moment. I’m swollen, large and feel terrible. I love what my body is doing and can’t wait to have my second daughter but I sure as heck don’t like what it is doing to my body. I don’t need my husband telling me that he’s not attracted to me…

  48. heynow says

    Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis?

    Every woman carries different some better than others. The guy should definitely keep it to themselves. It’s insensitive to voice your opinion to the woman carrying your child.

  50. The Beagle says

    I’m not sure who this is, but what does he expect?

    A person can’t help their tastes, and honesty is refreshing, so I can’t say that expressing this unpopular opinion is in any way wrong. However, if he wants kids and loves his partner, then he needs to learn to look past this because it’s not going to change if he moves on to someone else and gets them pregnant.

  52. dreameroc says

    Exactly I don’t think Blake or Scarlett are slim just normal and I never heard of Ryan being a cheater
    I’m thinking Ashton as he’s a cheater and Demi got really skinny when married to him and she was never that skinny before

  56. smileyriot says

    I like this too, because the similar blind is about Natalie Portman, who Mila starred in Black Swan with.

  57. Squeezes99 says

    I can’t see Ryan Reynolds telling ANYONE that he’s not attracted to his wife while she’s pregnant. He has too much class.

    No, it’s not OK to tell your wife you’re not attracted to her while she’s pregnant. Some things are better left unsaid.

  59. itstarapagain says

    This happened to my cousin with her first born. Her husband flipped out about her not being as tiny, although he did enjoy the chest, and decided to wander to a massage parlor.She found out when someone told her . They lived in a tiny town and those things don’t stay secret. She divorced him after their daughter was born and is now married to a fabulous man who was so excited when she got pregnant that he didn’t want to be away for a second and miss anything . The best dad to those kids

  60. KlaireBear says

    Ooooh, great guess. I thought Ryan and Blake, like most everybody else, but I think you are right.

  61. GoesInCircles says

    This.
    And she got quite round last time; I thought she looked lovely but I can see him not feeling it.

  63. HotTeacher88 says

    Been there. Had it done to me, found out and went into premature labor over raised blood pressure from the distress. Almost died. Never really got over it.

  64. delray74 says

    I agree. A grown man has to know when to keep his mouth shut. Which is like 99% of the time. I would know, I live in a house full of females.

  65. janebee says

    Definitely agree with you on this – neither Blake Lively nor Scarlett Johanson are ‘thin’ in the (distorted) Hollywood sense. Remember the whole Oakland booty thing?

  68. prinny says

    yup, I am with this guess. Would be in character for him.

    No, a man should NEVER be honest about not finding his pregnant wife attractive. Very hurtful to say the least.

  69. MissGrey says

    I would go with Chad Michael Murray (a *) or Ashton Kutcher (a cheater) wayyyy before Ryan Reynolds.

    [Optional] But anyway, I don’t think it is ok for a man to express that he’s not attracted to his pregnant partner/wife… She is growing his child. So, shut up dude. Some things are better left unsaid…

  70. prinny says

    My hubby says the same thing, was difficult to get back into the swing of things after witnessing the birth!

  71. I Am PunkA says

    Arrival, huh? Nice clue.

    Amy Adams and her husband Darren Le Gallo

    No, he should keep it to himself, she she is still your wife and companion. And she is carrying that baby for both of them.

  72. sherdinana says

    @Smileyriot, it is definitely these two as Natalie Portman is the related blind and she has starred in movies with both of them.

  73. amy1228 says

    I agree. Not only has Blake Lively always been a bit of a curvy girl, but the guy was previously married to Scarlett Johansson! Neither woman matches the “very slim” type described in the Blind. I agree with the poster below, probably Ashton and Mila

  75. KellyNotRipa says

    Blake has already given birth to her second child though. This sounds like someone who is currently pregnant.