Which married male cast member who has been on an NBC soap opera for a very long time is sleeping with the daughter of the one of the producers? Not a really scandalous thing until you realize she is still in her teens and our cast member is certainly past middle age. At least she is in college now. It was much tougher to get together when she was in high school. I will say that it has always been legal though. They did not start until she was 18. He has quite a bit of influence over her, though, encouraging her to apply to colleges in the New York area to keep their relationship going.