[Blind Gossip] This movie star really regretted the chaos that he caused in his household.
When his actress wife filed for divorce, he spent fifteen minutes being even more irresponsible and out of control… before deciding that he didn’t really want a divorce.
She wasn’t quick to take him back, though. In fact, she set four conditions for his return.
He had to stop drinking. He had to stop doing drugs. He had to stop cheating on her. He had to be a better, happier, more engaged father to the kids.
If he did ALL of those things, he could move back home, they could stay married, and they could even add to their family (She really did want one more child).
He struggled with all four. Actually, he tried and failed on the first three multiple times, and could barely muster up the energy to do much about the fourth.
And that’s why he’s so depressed.
Similar: All The Old Habits
[Optional] Do you think she should give him more time or another chance?
Actor: Ben Affleck
Actress: Jennifer Garner
Two down… two to go!
Actor Ben Affleck just disclosed that he has completed a stint in rehab.
Blind Gossip told you back in 2014 (see All The Old Habits) that Ben Affleck had slipped back into all the problems that had nearly destroyed him before.
Jennifer Garner was wise to split up with Ben over those transgressions, but still keep him close for the sake of the children and to serve as a grounding and supportive force.
You really have to give Jennifer Garner kudos for how she has handled herself through all of this. It was really the complete opposite of the Brad and Angelina split. Jen didn’t take the kids from Ben or trash him or try to get other people to hate him. She just laid down the rules and stuck by them. She did her job, raised her kids, and continued to try to encourage Ben to move in the right direction.
Just because Ben remained physically close to the family didn’t mean that they were together.
While everyone else was reporting that Ben and Jen were definitely back together – or that they were definitely divorcing – Blind Gossip was telling you the more complex truth.
Jen was not taking Ben back, but she was not giving up on him, either. She gave him four conditions that he needed to meet before she would even consider taking him back.
He’s now completed rehab. That will check off two of the four conditions set for him by Jennifer Garner. That is definitely a step in the right direction.
Ben Affleck Says He Recently Completed Rehab Stint for Alcohol Addiction
Ben Affleck revealed, in a Facebook post on Tuesday, that he recently completed a stint in rehab for alcohol addiction.
“I have completed treatment for alcohol addiction; something I’ve dealt with in the past and will continue to confront,” he wrote on Facebook. Affleck checked himself into rehab in 2001 as well.
“I want to live life to the fullest and be the best father I can be. I want my kids to know there is no shame in getting help when you need it, and to be a source of strength for anyone out there who needs help but is afraid to take the first step,” he continued. “I’m lucky to have the love of my family and friends, including my co-parent, Jen, who has supported me and cared for our kids as I’ve done the work I set out to do. This was the first of many steps being taken towards a positive recovery.”
Since he has completed rehab, there was really no need for him to disclose that it was for drugs as well as alcohol.
Interesting that he calls Jen “my co-parent” instead of “my wife” or “my ex-wife.” It’s a little awkward, and it demonstrates that their marriage is not repaired, but it does show that he recognizes her support.
Well done, Ben AND Jen! We wish Ben well in his recovery.
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Related: All The Old Habits